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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

hirai111
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Hi, I'm Hira, and I'm here to support you to the best of my ability. I genuinely enjoy talking and helping people, so feel free to talk to me about anything – I won't consider it a burden. If you're feeling the weight of ongoing conflicts or distressing events like those involving human rights violations, know that I'm here to listen. I strongly condemn any form of oppression, ethnic cleansing, apartheid, genocide, racism, dehumanization, sexism, etc. and I hope everyone feels heard for their issues. My goal is to provide a safe space for you to express your emotions and find support during difficult times. We are all human, and that's all it takes to feel empathy and compassion. I may be a bit inactive these days but I will be responding as soon as I can make time! Thank you for taking the time to read this <3 
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SteadyVibin92
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Hello my names is Manny! If you ever need someone to talk to about anything please let me know, I know what’s it’s like to feel alone and I don’t think anyone should ever feel that way . Please reach out! I will try my best to make it work 🖤
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Tyedyedbutterfly65
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        RETIRED FROM 7CUPS  AS OF 9-13-2023 . PLEASE BROWSE LISTENERS. I NO LONGER TAKE CHATS AND I HAVE DROPPED ALL MY BADGES.             ❤ "VOLUNTEERS ARE NOT PAID,NOT BECAUSE THEY ARE WORTHLESS ,BUT BECAUSE THEY ARE PRICELESS "❤             ❤️  I am a Christian- Married-Female ❤️                
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Auspicious9162
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If you are facing some problems don't worry I'm here to listen you.I'm here in free time and if I'm offline feel free to message me and set up time to meet thank you for being here.  
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Eloja3
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Hello! My name is Eloja :) A chat with me will be without any judgment and don't be scared to talk to me about anything! (Except the topics mentioned below) I am experienced with several mental health issues, which you can see under my profile. However, I can always provide a listening ear, when you feel like no one else will, experience or not. I only want the best for you  If you see that I'm online, I'm available for chatting with you! Topics I can't provide support with: - PTSD/trauma - Domestic violence - Addiction issues  
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RedEmerald
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Hello There! I am a career and mindset coach that enjoys genuine conversations. I will be a listening ear regarding your challenges in life and also there to listen to your positive experiences. I do not take conversations on sexual health or romantic relationships. Looking forward to our chat! 🙂 I wish you all peace and resolution! Sincerely, Kate
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Ines1229
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▼▼▼ PLEASE DO READ MY BIO BEFORE BOOKING CHATS WITH ME ▼▼▼ ________________________________________________________________________    «« Side note »»        「 I am more than happy to share own experiences if that would make you feel more comfortable, so please do not hesitate to ask me anything that you would like to know about myself. I'm an open book. 」◑ 📌 DISCLAIMER 📌: Please do not expect me to solve your issues nor don't you expect me to give you advice, as this is not what I am here for by any means. I will however help you reflect upon your own thoughts and brainstorm a few ideas that could help you to understand your chain of thoughts & get rid of all the confusion. Think of me as your personal thoughts organiser, rather than your adviser. ⌖⊶ ________________________________________________________________________                 «« What I DO provide support to & am experienced with »»              I provide support for the following categories ONLY, for the time being: Mood disorders (e.g. Bipolar, Depression), Personality Disorders (e.g. Borderline, Schizoid), Psychotic Disorders (e.g. Schizophrenia, Schizoaffective), Anxiety Disorders (e.g. Panic Disorders, GAD, Social Anxiety), Dissociative Disorders (DID, Depersonalization Disorder), Managing Emotions, Getting Unstuck & Confusion. ♡ ☼༄ ________________________________________________________________________             «« A bit about myself »»         My name is Ines. I am an artist and tour manager and I keep myself busy with travelling all around. I have dealt with quite a few mental disorders myself, including Bipolar, Borderline, GAD, and many others. I am into horse riding, song writing, ATVs, Psychology & Music in all of its forms and the idea of freedom is what keeps me afloat. ♫ ⇵ ➹ ________________________________________________________________________ ❛ I believe everyone deserves and needs 𝓈𝓊𝓅𝓅𝑜𝓇𝓉, so I am here and will try my best to help you guys deal with your darkest thoughts. Message me if you are down for a chat! ۵ ⚘ ❜ ________________________________________________________________________  «« IMPORTANT »» -> I’m uncomfortable talking about relationships, love and breakup.  -> I’m always up for authentic, philosophical talks. 
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Textingpals
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When you can't look on the bright side, I will sit with you in the dark.  - Hatter; Alice in Wonderland. ✨✨✨✨✨ Hello, this is Pals aka Tex, Rabbelion, Bun-bun, deformed Chihuahua, Paul, etc (feel free to give me a name, if you wish). Firstly, for the uninitiated, I am the "bunny" of 7 cups (on public demand) xD I am pretty chill and relaxed so, by all means, approach me regarding anything, a member 1-to-1 chat, a listener 1-to-1 chat, some queries you might have, etc. I love hanging out in rooms and meeting/talking to different people, so just drop me a PM (private message) anytime you want to have a non-serious, fun discussion, I won't mind.  My roles include: this para is kinda tedious, full of roles and monotonous stuff, hence skip it if you want to. 1. Verified Listener: you can find a 'Purple' tick mark beside my username and a 'Verified Listener' badge in my profile confirming it.   2. Safety Patrol member: you can check the same by the 'Safety Patrol' badge in my profile which lets me flag any inappropriate profiles. Please, do let me know if you spot anyone who you feel might hamper the safety and security of the site with an inappropriate profile/username or bio.  3. Sharing Circle buddy: as a former Sharing Circle host, I help new Sharing Circle hosts in conducting a smooth session as a 'Sharing Circle buddy'.  4. Listener Verifier: please confirm the same by finding a 'Listener Verifier Team' badge on my profile.  5. Safety Patrol Outreach Team member: I am part of this wonderfully constructed team of SPOT which allows me to conduct Safety Patrol training sessions.  6. Translator: 'Translator' badge on profile confirms the same.  7. Sharing Circle host: I am a Sharing Circle host as well; confirmed by the 'Sharing Circle' badge on my profile. However, currently, not hosting any Sharing Circle.  8. Safety Awareness team member: confirmed by the 'Safety Support' badge on my profile.  9. Adult Teen Listener Team: confirmed by the 'ATL' badge on my profile. 10. Team Lightship Member: also called Social Soldiers. My Achievements include: 1. 7 Cups Intern Graduate: I am proudly a 7 cups intern graduate with Honors.  2. Training guides completion: I have completed all the self-training guides, some of which are 'depression', 'Bipolar', 'Anxiety' etc, with sheer dedication.  3. Completion of Peer training guides: along with completing self-training guides, I am elevated to inform you that I have completed all the peer training guides, from one to twelve.  (Note: this doesn't make me a Peer Supporter) 4. Tulip badge: I am a 'Tulip badge' holder, if the one who recommended me for the same is reading this, then please know that I can never thank you enough.  5. Completion of AL tests: I am delighted to announce that I have all four AL completion badges, 'Graduate', 'Master', 'Scholar' and 'Rocket listener', which confirms that I have successfully completed all four Active Listening Tests, one, two, three, four, respectively.  6. Multiple Academy trainee: Currently, I am a trainee/soon-to-be-a-graduate for the following programs: (i) LDP (ii)GLDP (iii)CDM (iv)QL Before I proceed, let me tell you that I did not list the roles and achievements because I wanted to flaunt them or make myself feel important. That's not why they exist, at least not the roles. I am not a fan of listing them as well.  I did this simply because I have a poor memory so listing these in my bio will help me keep a track of it. Additionally, by listing them I wanted to let you know that anyone in search of information regarding any of the above-mentioned roles/achievements can PM me, I would be glad to help you solve your queries on the same or provide you with any information I have.  Which reminds me, I want to address a topic I have been meaning to speak about (I will try to keep it short, I promise): Your roles/achievements don't define your 'status', 'respect', or 'position' in this community. I request you to never ever sign up for a role if you aren't interested or just want to feel 'important' in this community. You are important. Every single person in this community matters and is equally significant. You don't need to sign up for roles to prove it to yourself or to someone else. We all, together, make this community a better place, and your roles/achievements/chats/cheers don't matter.          If you are really passionate about a team or want to join it because you are genuinely interested in it, then unquestionably join it. But please, please don't ever expose yourself to burnout/compromise your mental health or sign up for a larger number of roles than you can handle just to list it down in your profile or to seem more important.         I don't mean offense to anyone. I respect people who work passionately on different levels just to keep this site working, I really do respect and appreciate their efforts.  Again: you matter, you are a salient part of this site. Every single one of you.  Few lines I read somewhere which I absolutely love: "Even if you are not noticed, you are still valid.  Even if there is no one to read it, you should still write it.   Even if there is no one to hear it, you should still say it.   Even if there is no one to see it, you should still do it.   You are not measured by how people react to you." Lastly, a special mention of someone who has tagged me in their profile: @leafycup: thank you for mentioning me in your cute little bio, Leafyyy :p (P.S: for those who remember it, yes, my self-care has come to an end and I am back, to attack you guys with cookies and my nomming sessions xD)  
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iStarlight
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CALL ME STARRY Feel Free for chats, I will listen to you no matter what, I can feel your pain whenever you share yours with me. PLEASE NOTE  I dont do sexual talks, men's issue, and sexual health.Please dont force me talking about this topics, which really makes me uncomfortable   its better if you people search for a listener who are ok with talking about this above mentioned FOR BIPOLAR PEOPLE I have gained certificate and training on UNDERSTANDING BIPOLAR, feel sure to chat about your issues so that i can with there for you all and make sure you all feel safe with me while texting me and share everything I will try my best to give you all your time whenever it's about yourself. I am your own people, no matter what I'm always there for you. Promise you that you are the best, you are an angel, and you are meant to happiest person alive.
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Kanga
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"​To love means loving the unlovable. To forgive means pardoning the unpardonable. Faith means believing the unbelievable. Hope means hoping when everything seems hopeless." ​-Gilbert K. Chesterton Hi there! My name is Roo, and welcome to my profile! For members:  I am so glad that you've decided to reach out and talk about whatever it is that is on your mind! I know how scary and intimidating it can seem sometimes, but just know that I am here to provide a safe, positive, and nonjudgmental space for you to talk ❤ The topics I specialize in are LGBTQ+ related issues, and anxiety, but I promise to do my best to help you no matter what you may be struggling with! I also am willing to talk about issues regarding sexuality, or issues regarding sex. This does NOT mean I am willing to engage in a sexual chat WHATSOEVER. Some topics I'm not so good at are eating disorders and trauma. Sometimes there is a better suited listener, and I just want to make sure you are receiving the best support possible! If you feel we might not make a good fit, you can click >here [/notes/7cups.com/BrowseListeners]< to browse for other listeners. I DO NOT take chats on self-harm, as these are triggering topics for me. Thank you for understanding! For Listeners: I am also a member of the verifiers team, so I can conduct a mock chat with you to help you earn the verified listeners badge. To learn about this and apply for a mock chat, click >here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerProjectsampTeams_148/VerifiedListenersProjectVLProjectQualityProject_685/IWanttobeaVerifiedListener_46935/1/]< I am a former Quality Teen Star, Support Team Leader, Feed Team Leader, and Chat Supporter/Peer Supporter. If you have any questions regarding to this, don't hesitate to ask! ​​​​  About me My name is Roo and my pronouns are she/her. I live in the USA with my 4 chicken children (and my family of course). I love to dance, read, listen to music, and to paint. I am a self-proclaimed literature JUNKIE and quote enthusiast. I consider myself to be an advocate for mental illness and equality. I believe everyone deserves to feel loved and respected 💕 I am a proud member of the LGBTQ+ community, and I support people of all sexual/gender/romantic identities.🌈 I joined 7 cups in May of 2017 while seeking support during a difficult time in my life. In October of 2017 I signed up to be a listener, in hopes of making a positive impact on other's lives, and surrounding myself with love and compassion. I am very passionate about the 7 cups community, and I am always looking for someplace to improve myself :) Lovely person reading my bio, here are some things I want you to know: You are strong. Stronger than you could ever know. You are alive, right now, at this very moment! Do you know how much strength it takes to just be alive? ⭐ You are beautiful. As the saying goes, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Often times we lack the ability to see the beauty in ourselves that others see in us. Regardless of how you look, you are beautiful, inside and out.  ⭐ You are worth it. Your self worth can not be measured by anything anyone says, or what your brain tells you either! You deserve love, happiness, and respect. You deserve to get better. ⭐ I believe in you. I think that everyone has the ability to heal, to pursue their goals, and to have good mental health. You are no different! No matter what is going on in your life, or how difficult your struggles might be, I am rooting for you! ⭐ I am here for you. We all come from different walks of life, and I will never judge you because of yours. I am here to support you and offer kindness, sympathy, and compassion. I hope that we can be friends! ⚠This account is a SAFE SPACE for ALL. Anyone who tries to invade that safe space WILL be blocked & reported IMMEDIATELY.⚠
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compassionateFireworks7474
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“I can’t promise to fix all your problems but I can promise you won’t have to face them alone.”
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YayyySphere
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*Not taking on new members at the moment due to time constraints and for personal reasons*  Hey I'm Sphere and I have finished my internship on 7 Cups. I'm a 19 year old who has just graduated from High School! :) I've been through a lot, and I specialize in Self-Harm chats, even though you're free to talk to me about anything else! :) I'll definitely try my best to help out. Feel free to start a chat with me if I'm online, or you can leave me a message if I'm offline or busy. I'll get back to you as soon as I'm available! :) Also feel free to drop me a message if you would just like a casual chat! ^.^   Main Involvements: ☞Quality Mentor Leader ☞Teen Quality Mentor ☞Group Support Quality Mentor ☞Support Room Mentor (Student Support) ☞Forum Mentor (Student Support Community)   Listening Strengths: ✦Anxiety ✦Depression ✦Managing Emotions ✦School Stress ✦Self-Harm ✦Social Anxiety   Shoutouts!ツ @221Skye [https://www.7cups.com/@221Skye]-The best messiest person ever who is really awesome at the same time! ◕‿◕ @BrilliantShoe [https://www.7cups.com/@brilliantshoe]-My fantastic friends whom I've known here on 7 Cups! :) Keep on being cool and awesome! ❤ @ [http://7cups.com/@arxxxh]ArwaS [http://7cups.com/@ArwaS]- Vulvy, thanks for being such an awesome friend, hehe I'm lucky to have such a friend like you! Stay amazing buddy ^_^
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