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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

FawkesCare12
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Hello to the amazing person reading this. I'm here to help total strangers deal with all too familiar problems. If you just want someone to listen to you and understand you, I hope to be able to do that for you. Asking for help and speaking about our problems is really hard. So if you're here, you've already overcome a huge hurdle. So if you want to talk or just need someone to vent to, I'm here .This is a completely non- judgemental space, where you are accepted just the way you are because you are doing the best you can and that makes you all the more amazing .
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LittleBirdie30
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Hello! My name is Birdie! Thank you for visiting my profile! I am happy you are here!  I am not currently taking any new chats 💙 Listener Twin: @ChillingRain 💛 My roles include:  -Chatroom Moderator -Care Team Lead Team Leader -Peer Supporter -Safety Patrol Team -Adult and Teen Quality Mentor -Quality Ambassador Please do not hesitate to reach out to me with any questions! I am here for you!  *I am not online during the weekends, so I will do my best to get back to you during the week. Thank you!* National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 988 & Crisis Text Line: 741-741 A list of international hotlines: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_suicide_crisis_lines
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honestOval1284
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Note: Please be polite. There's no need to be rude. Just want to emphasise that.  I've been on 7 cups since mid 2015. It's been interesting meeting a diverse range of people and getting to know more about the issues they're facing and their cultural background.  After a few years of research, I understand abusive relationships, so am able to help you more with that. Also, having experienced anxiety and depression, I can help in that area too. Specific topic where I've experienced pain... if you've had a counselor or psychologist that's been unprofessional towards you, or gave you the cold shoulder or ignored you after years of knowing them (as what happened to me), then we can talk about that kind of topic.  Also, I'm a big fan of music, and write my own material. We can talk about that too if that's what you love too. Other interests: Travel, sport, photography, philosophy.  Cheers, A good book on abusive relationships: http://humanmagnetsyndrome.com/
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blackBreeze8485
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Heyoo.., i know you are having a bad time🙃 but dont make your heart heavy....Everything has a reason❤ don't let tears come out from your beautiful eyes😊 God is always with us....this is life, it teaches us so many lessons even when we are not interested in learning ....dont doubt your worth; you deserve happiness😇...so take a deep breath ...and let it out...im here with you....you are gonna face everything with a smile on your face....be happy❤
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ResidentBallerine
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  Я принимаю чаты на русском языке.  Назовите мне если вы хотите чтобы я послал вам эту био переведенную на русский язык.               BIO MEEDS TO BE UPDATED -some information is out of date/inaccurate- I will update this section when I have time, thanks for patience and understanding!  Hello y'all! My name Jen, and I found that in my time as a member I really enjoyed extending support where I could, and here I am as a listener! I would love to help you however I can, whether it means casually chatting, letting you vent, or truly listening.  A Little About Me: I'm a drill team dancer at my local highschool, but I really prefer ballet! Currently I have two dogs and three siblings. I have ASD, feel free to ask questions about autism as I'm happy to answer! I grew up in Russia along with my sister and now live in the US :)  My hobbies are dancing and cooking, and supporting members on cups. I want to make sure all members that come to me are receiving my best support and full attention, however due to multiple commitments in my personal life I can only offer my best listening a few times a week at most. If you would like to schedule a chat or offline chat, please just drop a message and I will accommodate you (:  My Best Chat Topics I am most comfortable and feel best equipped to provide support for... -self harm- -eating disorders-  -family stress- -student life- -trauma/PTSD- -alchohol/drug use-  -autism- -lgbtq+- Bonus: Oddly specific, but I also live with a family member has FASD so I do feel equipped to offer FASD support. Chat Topics I Do Not Take Chat topics I cannot provide support for are... -weight management- -domestic violence/abuse- -breakups-    
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SparkyGizmo
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Unable to take member chats at this time.  "You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem and smarter than you think". - Winnie The Pooh I believe that all people need something to do, something to aspire to and someone to love. I believe that angels walk among us, because God is a really busy person-solving lack of world peace, world hunger, etc.  He sends angels to us even in human form to help the cause.  Look for them...now, look harder. I believe what you seek, you shall find. I believe that we all have something to learn from anyone and everyone that we meet. I believe that happiness is a journey and not a destination. I believe that kindness matters, always. Oh well, that's just me.  I BELIEVE ❤️  Enough about me, how about if we talk about you?  Roles on 7 cups Trained Active Listener Verified Active Listener Safety Patrol Team  Peer Pro Peer Support Global Forum Supporter 7 Cups Welcome Committee Pop Up Room Co-host when needed Eyes to the ground. Head bowed. Love in my heart. If we could only just think....."Ideologies separate us. Dreams and anguish bring us together". - Eugene Ionesco . Please let us all be kind to ourselves and to one another.  "Don't be evil" Paul Buchheit "Love Always Comes Back" GlenM's grandmother "...and this is why we can't have nice things around here".  H 😊😁😊 "Keep it real or get the banana peel". Community Mod Anne Proud recipient of the:  Funny Bunny Badge, Biggest Heart Award, Love Award, Kindness Personified Award, Electrifying Energy Badge, "O.A." Original Appreciator Badge, Unofficial "The Receptionist", Spark Hug Badge, "Sing" Badge and Sparkiest Badge (Thank you teammates! I adore you all! ❤️)
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chyni
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“success is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts.” —winston churchill 🦋🦋🦋 IMPORTANT NOTICE 📣  please DO NOT send me a message saying "hi" or "hey" as i normally overlook these messages as spam/nothing serious, and rarely reply or never. i also ask users to do this as it helps me to understand better about the topic we’d be speaking on, as i’m not comfortable discussing certain things. if you have an issue that you'd like to speak on, please send me a brief message stating your issue/s and I'll get back to you ASAP when I'm available, thank you. also, my chats are normally 30-60 mins, depending on you 😊  hello there, my name is chyni. welcome to my profile and to the 7 cups of tea site. there are a range of issues that i’m comfortable offering compassionate support for. these include:  anxiety •• breakups •• bullying •• chronic pain •• depression •• domestic violence •• loneliness •• managing emotions •• relationship stress •• social anxiety •• student life •• exercise motivation •• family stress •• forgiveness •• financial stress •• getting unstuck •• grief •• obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD) •• panic attacks •• self-esteem •• spirituality •• work stress i am a trained and verified listener, my goal here while serving my time on the 7 cups of Tea site is to, change or help change patterns of your thinking or behavior that are behind your difficulties, and so, change the way you feel.  🦋🦋🦋 my leadership roles: peer support verified listener room supporter — depression support  forum supporter — motivation & accountability community  forum supporter — 7 cups academy community  🦋🦋🦋 i don’t have a specific time for my availability, it’s whenever my status indicates that i’m available. if the status color is green, it means that i’m online, yellow– busy, and red– offline.  i look forward to chatting with you and understanding how best I can help you.  best wishes, chyni 🤍
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Feensa
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Hye, I am active and verified listen and glad to help you by listening to your problems. I do not give advice just friendly suggestions if you ask. I love to listen. I am also a student so I respect others' perspectives and views about life. Keep me safe from political discussions and sensitive issues. Moreover, I am glad you visited my profile have a nice day. Take care.
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comfortableNight4463
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Hi! I'm Night. I am here to provide support by listening to you.  I am available on; Tuesday (10PM to 12AM EST) Wednesday (8PM to 10PM EST) Thursday (6PM to 8PM EST) Friday (10 AM to 2PM and 8PM to 10PM EST)  Saturday (8PM to 10PM EST) Sunday (10AM to 2PM EST) *All times are in EST (United States)
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AshBlossom27
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Hey there and welcome! Glad you found me on 7 Cups. I would love to assist in any way that I can, however, there are a few things to address:  - If what you wish to discuss is an issue related to sex or pleasure (or try to RP in any capacity) I am not the listener for you. My own relationship with sexual topics is complicated, as I am ace (asexual) and get very uncomfortable with anyone going into detail on those things. Please do not reach out just to tell me that my sexuality is not valid. Though, if you want to talk to me about sexuality, I am more than happy to listen!  -  There are subjects listed in which I have personal experience and am comfortable helping you with, however, there are also those I don't have the knowledge base to aid with or am uncomfortable speaking with (again, sexual topics and abuse). Please take those into consideration if you send me a personal request.  - If at any time you feel as though a different listener would be better, let me know and you are more than welcome to find another. I will not be offended, as not everyone connects with the first person they try to talk with. Understand that I will do the same if I feel I am not qualified or a situation arises that brings me discomfort. Thanks for the read! And, I hope we can help you out here! Ash (she/her)
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quietlistener2023
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If I am not online just leave a message and I will try to get back to you as soon as possible  تحياتي أتمنى أن تكون بخير. أنا مستمع مدرب عبر الإنترنت وقد أجريت دورات وحصلت على شهادة في الدعم النفسي وقمت بالتدريب كمعالج. لا تتردد في مناقشة كل ما يزعجك. أنا مؤهل أيضًا في الدراسات الإسلامية ، لذا لا تتردد في مناقشة الموضوعات ذات الصلة
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lucywormie
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hi I’m lucy! I’m 18 from England! my pronouns are she/her.  an important note: i have absolutely loved my time here. knowing people genuinely find help and support here as well as knowing i can provide that means the world to me. however, i have since turned 18 which means i can no longer listen to teens. i still consider myself a teen and talking to teens is where I'm most comfortable. sadly though i cant apply to become an adult teen listener due to my own personal anxieties over the application process. so i'm very heartbroken to say that i think my listening journey will be ending here. or at least until i'm comfortable enough to talk to adults. i'm still willing to talk to anyone who is 18-20 if need be. have a lovely year anyone reading this. i wish everyone the best <3   from my list of topics I’m comfortable talking about there are stars indicating what I have direct experience with, however I also have indirect experience (supporting family and friends) with (from that list): ➤ OCD ➤ cancer ➤ alcohol and drug use ➤ bipolar ➤ anxiety ➤ chronic pain ➤ parenting   some things I’m not comfortable discussing: ➤ exercise motivation ➤ men’s issues ➤ sexual health   things I’d prefer not to discuss unless incredibly necessary: ➤ your spirituality - this is because it often ends up boiling down to opinions plus I wouldn’t want to accidentally offend or insult as someone who’s not informed on your religion. I also don’t feel comfortable discussing my own beliefs  ➤ LGBTQ+ - this is because I don’t have any experience in this area and I often don’t know how to help! if you want to talk I’ll do my best but you might get more out of talking to someone who understands <3     I do offer long term listener support so check here to see if I’m busy or free for more listeners!: ❤️ green - free to take on more orange - I’m busy with my current listeners red - I’m not doing any long term listeners right now! 
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