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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

caringKiwi8601
L Specialist 5 700
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Hi. You can call me caring, kiwi, or Anna ( This is a nickname my friend calls me). My favorite animal is a wolf and my favorite color is teal. I love listening to music and reading. My fav people are my best friends ash, Hansika, and Ann as well as my bf. I have had many issues in past and I know what it's like to feel like to not have anyone to talk to. I loving helping people and especially want to help you cause I know you guys are very strong. Although I do take casual chats. I do have some boundaries. If something comes up I will inform and we can change the topic. I also do have a few triggers such as talking about explicit sexual issues and all caps messaging. I am very sorry if you need help with that but I am sadly not able to help you. To talk a little about my schedule. I am usually free Monday, Wednesday, and Friday from 4:30 to 12 in EST. On the weekends, and Thursday and Tuesday I will probably pop in randomly. Chats with me our around 30 minutes to an hour but can go on longer if you would like. green: I am free and am open to any pm's Orange: I am currently in another chat so I might take a few minutes to respond. I could also be in a room but I will respond as soon as I see your message. Red: I am most likely offline and will not be taking any Chats at the time. I could also take time to respond to your pm. For a range it could be a few minutes to 12 hours most of the time.
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HeavenlyMagic
L Sage 11 2378
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Listens toOver 18 Last activein last week
𝒶 𝓃𝑜𝓉𝑒 𝒻𝓇𝑜𝓂 𝓂𝑒 𝓉𝑜 𝓎𝑜𝓊 ˗ˏˋ ♡ ˎˊ˗ your feelings are absolutely valid, i am so proud of you and i love you so much. no matter what, i'm here for you. 𓍢ִ໋🌷͙֒ you are not alone in this. i am with you. let's go through it together. ♡ i will never judge u for anything. ⟡ i'm more than happy to talk. 。 ₊°༺❤︎༻°₊ 。 𝒶𝒷𝑜𝓊𝓉 𝓂𝑒 ༄ i'm in love with kindness, compassion, and empathy. i just love the love itself.  i believe the world be a beautiful place when everyone is compassionate and kind to each other. 🌸 ⋆。˚ there is nothing more beautiful to me than filling the heart with love and love only.  i love doing selfless deeds. ♡ i love prayers for others. i love this very existence. i believe in magic. ⭒ •─────────•-ˋˏ ༻❁༺ ˎˊ-•─────────• i love you so much and so many people do. you just have not met them yet. ∞ -`♡´-
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GuiOakes
L Genius 4 3878
5.0 star rating
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Listens toOver 18 Last activein last week
/// Please send me personal request or personal message while I am away, I will get back to you as soon as I can. \\\ Hi there, I am NS and I am a verified listener on 7cups since 2020, if you are feeling low, if you are in pain and you want to rant out and need someone to hear you out, you can talk to me.  This is a safe place, I don't judge, I don't give advice, whatever happens between us stays between us, you can let yourself out, and I'll listen to you. I personally have gone through many issues alone when I didn't want to because I didn't have anyone, I try to be a person who I could have relied on when I went through my dark episodes in life, and I want to help you in the same way by being someone whom you can rely upon with your deepest and darkest problems. I know how it feels when life seems to be going in a downward spiral, but I can reassure you that while things may not seem fine, they will be better in long term. Its hard going through the hurdles of life alone, when faced with tough times, you don't have to go through it alone, you can rely on me, on us. Being a listener, don't hesitate to approach me if you want to talk about any topic you'd like. We can talk about anything you are going through to anything you are passionate about. Everyone is welcomed here, even listeners who might be going through something they wanna rant or discuss about but make sure to use your member account for that. I prioritize comfort, boundaries and listening above everything, if you do have any topics or any boundaries you feel uncomfortable discussing, let me know. I'll make sure not to cross any of them.  A note to myself and others who might be going through their own problems: You are a human, a flawed one. You make mistakes like everyone does, you aren't different from others. We all are different, all our problems are different but no matter how small they seem in your eyes, they are valid nonetheless. Happiness and Suffering and two sides of same coin called life. There will be times so tough you want to give up, and there will be times where you cannot contain your happiness. No matter how tough life seems right now, don't give up. You are valid. Your problems are valid. Your experiences are valid. Don't let people who say otherwise, influence you into thinking you are worthless, because most of the times, its self projection. Talk to me, ill listen. Don't let your negative self influence you into thinking everything's worthless and there's no point in talking about it, at a cosmos level, nothing really matters. But right now, in the moment, you are living, you are experiencing, so it does matter, at least right now. Its going to be alright, even if it doesn't in the moment feels so, let talk and open up and try to make things alright. pfp by wooma from shama- Shama - Utattemita/Miyashita Yuu - YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xpuyx_Y_Hw0] PS- I like to give huge and tight hugs, ill give you too, as much as you want :p​
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AGentleGlow
L Helper 10 67
5.0 star rating
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Listens toOver 18 Last activein last week
Hello! My name is AGentleGlow (or Glow), and I'm a new listener here on 7 Cups. I have experience in volunteering and mental health, so wanted to give my time to those who may need someone to talk to. I do not judge, and can provide a compassionate and empathetic space for you to feel safe to communicate. You're brave, remember that ❤️
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mamaswisdom52
L Maven 7 1423
4.5 star rating
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Listens toOver 18 Last activein last week
I like listening to people and share positive energy
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ExploringMinds
L Paragon 9 6289
5.0 star rating
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Listens toOver 18 Last activein last week
 █░█ █▀▀ █░░ █░░ █▀█ █▀█ ██▄ █▄▄ █▄▄ █▄█  This is (͡• ͜ʖ ͡•). I take REQ-only chats (if I decline your REQ, then it means I am occupied with other chats, for that I AM 🙏). Self-harm topics, a big ✘. Rude or arrogant behavior will be ⛔. Chat ✍ will be deleted. So, don't be surprised, it's just one of my habits. Other than that, everything is 👌.
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GrimSox
L Master 10 856
5.0 star rating
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Listens toOver 18 Last activein last week
Hi, I'm Grim! aka Rocky(Summer), Grimmo(Fristo), Grimsby (Beecake) "MEOWDY? what sort of cowboy kitty is that? 😮 is that McFluffy Marky Meowzers?"(WhiteJenny) Listener Twin: Bouncy (@bouncyCandy4246) Will be on self-care break from 1st May '24, for an indefinite amount of time. I'm grateful to be on this amazing platform that has helped me in myriad ways, and so I'd decided to give back to the community as a verified listener. I believe that due to some reasons or the other, we tie ourselves into emotional knots that are hard to undo, especially when we don't find a comfortable place to work on it. We tend to wound ourselves up more and more in the helplessness. As a listener, I aim to provide a non-judgmental and comfy space to ground so that you could be gentle with yourself. Then, bit by bit, you could do what's needed for you, and free your heart!   Qn by @KartikListener: "If you had 1 big wish, what would you wish for (only selfish wishes allowed)?" Ans:"I wish to have a big farm with a nice cottage with flowers, where I would grow a lot of vegetables, where I would bake my own bread, make pasta and wine, where I would have books, cats, wild birds and animals, and would just do what my partner finds cute (she's amazing, and I trust her completely). We would host good people from all around the world as our guests and volunteers to help around our big farm, and we can learn from each other's life experiences, and sing and dance. I hope it's not too much, and you asked for a big wish so....😊" #ByeByeCliques Preferred Topics: - Bipolar - Anxiety - Depression  - General Mental Health - Grief - Getting Unstuck - Exercise Motivation - Managing Emotions - Self-esteem and self-harm - Relationship Stress - Racial and Cultural Identity - Spirituality P.S. : Please do reach out to me in case you want to talk over other related issues that overlap with the aforementioned topics, except: Issues I Don't Want to Discuss: - Marital topics - Financial Stress - Cancer/Diabetes Some more stuff: Green means 'online and taking personal requests'. Orange means 'online but busy conversing with another member'. Red is 'offline'.  Please do leave messages even when it's orange/red, I'll see them and reach out to you as soon as I can, even the next day!  Looking forward to connecting with you! Regards,   --- 7 Cups is built on collaboration, and a little appreciation goes a long way! It takes just a second to make someone's whole day right now: Peer Appreciation Form [https://tinyurl.com/PeerAppreciation]
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CriSun
L Apprentice 6 91
5.0 star rating
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Listens toOver 18 Last activein last week
世上千千万万聆听者,我是之一。 "The world has millions of listeners, I'm the one of them."
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CheeryMango
L Exemplar 1896
5.0 star rating
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Listens toTeens & Over 18 Last activein last week
Welcome to my bio!  Please note that my response time is within 3 days.  Hello, Bonjour, Hola, Guten Tag, Ciao, Ola, Ni Hao! I'm CheeryMango or commonly known as Mango here on 7cups. I'm currently the Subcommunities Coordinator which means I oversee all operations within the Subcommunity Domain.  Please feel free to reach out for support connected to the site and Subcommunities! I am unable to take on chat requests right now. Please connect to our listeners here!  [http://7cups.com/BrowseListeners]
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HealerWithin
L Veteran 5 2760
5.0 star rating
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Listens toOver 18 Last activein last week
💞Next goal: Work on my dreams and travel with my friend. 💞🍀   Get Your coffee mugs and let's get started! :) I am so happy to meet you!   🍀👋🙌Hello! 😀 Welcome to 7 cups of tea.☕Thank you for finding me here as your listener.👂 I would be glad to help you. :)😄 Send me a message✉ and if I am online 💚, I would try to connect with you as soon as possible. 💬📬Take care.🙏💟😊🍀
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VioletNotes
L Advanced 10 432
5.0 star rating
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Listens toTo Teens Last activein last week
Hello, I'm Violet. I am generally unavailable for support chats. ------------------------- But here's some information anyways! My listener twin is tuffattack ☆ I would like to study peace and conflict resolution at university ♡ ------------------------- Каждая пуля находит свою цель в сердце матери ------------------------- Happy to help with studies or homework ☆ I'm always here for a genuine, two-way conversation ♡ My cups role model is Mahad2804 ☆ ------------------------- And I hope that this finds you well. That's all!
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ASilentObserver
L Epitome 19 4422
5.0 star rating
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Listens toTeens & Over 18 Last activein last week
"You are always one decision away from a totally different life." Hello everyone, I'm known as Obs and I'm one of the members of the Community Management Team [https://www.7cups.com/about/communityGuidelines.php].  Here are some resources in case you need them -  If you are unable to see any group support rooms, probably you would need to meet some requirements. Check them here! [https://www.7cups.com/forum/GroupSupport_168/ASilentObserversOffice_2008/WeeklyGroupSupportLetterWeekofFeb10_217277/]  Join us in various group discussions. check the community calendar for the schedule and details.  [https://www.7cups.com/home/communityCalendar.php] Group Support Frequently Asked Questions [https://www.7cups.com/forum/GroupSupport_168/ObsDesk_2008/FrequentlyAskedQuestionsGroupSupport_215692/] Weekly Communi. a listener [https://www.7cups.com/forum/SafetyKnowledgeat7Cups_181/CommunityModeratorWeeklySchedule_1640/CommunityModScheduleWeekofJan06_214569/] If you are a listener and need some Chat Support, check this resource [https://www.google.com/url?q=https://docs.google.com/document/d/1jf7BqGrwkY0zFhU3PKaAaRVCoEd6O2TD0vNhuiRHRD8/edit?usp%3Dsharing&sa=D&ust=1581950130116000&usg=AFQjCNFZd4GUNuPdJ94r__2tXhDNc9oL5Q]  Please feel free to PM me with any questions or doubts regarding our community and roles. I am here with you to help with the best of my efforts while we keep building our community better each day with team efforts.  I am unable to take chat requests right now as I am unable to respond timely. I request you to connect with other available listeners here-  Browse Listeners [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/]. We all are here with you to listen to and support you.  Do not say, "I am having a bad day." Say, "I am having a character-building day." - Les Brown Have a wonderful day and thanks for stopping by!!
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