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ASilentObserver |
Listener - Epitome 19

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"You are always one decision away from a totally different life."

Hello everyone, I'm known as Obs and I'm one of the members of the Community Management Team

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Do not say, "I am having a bad day." Say, "I am having a character-building day." - Les Brown

Have a wonderful day and thanks for stopping by!!
Number of Ratings: 535
Number of Reviews: 241
Listens to Teens & Over 18
Languages English
Listener Since Jul 4, 2017
Last Active in last week
Progress Path Step 2,414
Cheers 814,431
People Helped 679
Chats 3,494
Group Support Chats 4,063
Listener Group Chats 2,887
Forum Posts 6,872
Forum Upvotes 23,630
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Feedback & Reviews
We patient explaining answers to my questions.
Obs is such an amazing person, and I appreciate all of the contributions they have made to this wonderful community. Keep up the amazing work, and never change! ❤️❤️
An empathetic mind!
This person is very genuine and caring and honest. It was a shear pleasure interacting with them. I highly recommend them as someone to talk too and you should feel much much better afterwards. Definitely a pillar of this 7 cups community indeed. 10/10 service.
Obs is so nice and very patient. He is one of the best listeners there is, and I would give him a million stars if I could.
A wonderful person who goes the extra mile to make this a platform that is user friendly . They were patient responsive and very helpful.
He understands me. He just did thank you a thousand times
He's just the best
Really helpful and motivational
The best hands down so understanding and caring
He is a very nice person, he is willing to go extra mile just to help. He is deserves a million dollars tbh😂
Very good communicator and answers automatically when gets a chance, nice friendly too..
Obs is always pleasant and enjoyable to chat with, even in minor interactions. :)
A great listener who helped sort my emotions and lended a listening ear to my problems when no one was there to listen to them
He was very attentive, loyal, kind, Supportive and Empathetic Listener. Thanks you so much ASilentObserver 🥰♥️
Very attentive and considerate person, thank you for your help
great listener helpful
Very kind and understanding i loved talking to obs I highly recommend talking to obs if you need a helping hand
Very kind person. Encourages me a lot.
ASilentObserver was very kind and open to hearing my concerns. Also, very quick to respond and seemed forthright.
They helped me a lot just by listening, it was great talking to them.
Good he is very helpful
Hard worker. Amazing person.
thank you. You're wonderful
Hard working person for cups. Appreciate all that he does for us
Great person. Very Kind and very helpful.
Responds quickly and gets to the point.
Great Listener.
Super helpful, thanks so much
Always doing a great job. Very observant! ;)
Good hope we can continue
Great chat. I feel valued as a member.
*huggles* thank you soo much
They are very soothing.
Amazing listener! Thank you for taking the time to listen to my concerns and worries, and give real thought out answers which helped me realize things. It made me feel really listened to 💛
very patient listener
I was lucky to talk to him. He is knowledgeable on many topic and he understood me very well in short time. Gave me nice suggestion when asked. It was worth talking to him. Compassionate.. Empathy and have patient and easy to talk. definitely can be recommend to other. God bless you and you be happy always.
Great listener! Provided very helpful thoughts.
Helped me deal with the problem which was bugging me from a long time
I loved the chat.. it was what you might call refreshing... 😄
OBS is so caring
Really great listener
Very thoughtful in responses, really gives you a sense that they care and genuinely want to help
Really helped to talk things through
very helpful, caring and understanding
Such a warm heart!🤗
Amazing Listener as always :) Makes me feel a lot better after our conversation :)
One of the best listeners I have ever met. Responds and is there whenever I needed him. Makes me feel a lot better!:)
He was very nice and understanding to me, and helped me talk through my anxiety. I had a good time talking with him.
very kind and amazing listener
I am so thankful for the help and useful tips that I get,great advice!
I find the support valuable and appreciate the advice
Really useful communucation,friendly,helpful advice
Thank you.
Great Listener:) empathizes with you and understands. Feel a lot better after our conversation :)
Thank you very much. Thanks for helping with Bipolar awareness / relationships -- very important topic.
I found some great support from @ASilentObserver and a genuine,caring attitude.I much appreciate his help!
An amazing and caring person. They helped me through a really rough time.
amazing person genuinely kind and caring always responsive really helped me in my time of need thank you so much
Very caring and helpful
Silent is awesome, as always. Great listener, always there when I need to talk to someone and provides a compassionate ear to my seemingly minuscule problems.
Awesome!!! Love Obs!
Super understanding and sweet, thank you!
Always help and has insightful inputs
Had a fruitful and enlightening session helped me see things clearer and understand better where I was lagging
Understanding, smart, attentive, interactive, caring.
Obs is extremely helpful, understanding, and caring. I felt like I wasn't being judged, so thank you so much for your advice and I'll be coming again when I need more help!
Very helpful and understanding. She will lsten to what ever u have to say and try to help u sort out ur thoughts and help u with what's going on I highly recommend her
Thanks for your time
You're Kind. Thanks
awesome as always and very helpful
Thank you silentObs. You have been really helpful.
Obs is such a lovely heart to chat with. Always having the nicest words to make a day go better. It's a sweet heart and caring person I every way.
Our conversation was awesome! Thank you @ASilentListener
They helped and I appreciate that, I felt better after talking with them for a bit.
I did like how compassionate it seems to be.
He is very patient. Listened to my problems without judgment. Tried to cheer me up when I was at my worse. Thanks for being my listener.
Silent offers me a compassionate and nonjudgmental ear whenever I'm going through some stuffs or even when I'm just feeling out of the weather. If you need someone who'll be there when you need and won't leave you, just send silent a message.
Obs is a safe and kind listener, always willing to offer a friendly ear and a gentle shoulder. Thank you.
Silent is an amazing listener. He was helpful in going through my thoughts about something I cannot talk about. After talking to him I had more clarity. Thanks for being there.
I love obs!! He always knows how to comfort me when I'm going through stuff. 😊 Even when I'm at my worst he's there to pick up the pieces. 😊 he's sooo kind and helpful and caring. 😊
Really gud listener.. m glad we spoke..
Great listener :D
Silent is the best listener anyone can have. He is super awesome and I can't define them in words. So glad to bump into him. He is a happy go lucky baby elephant :D
Very caring and compassionate listener.Didn't rush me in times of distress and helped me to calm down, feel safe step by step, at my own pace, respected my needs, wants and knew exactly how to lead and handle the given situation that came out of the blue without even knowing me.Encouraged to open up gently and get in touch again if needed.Thanks a lot for supporting me in a moment when it was hard to help myself!
great listener, not judgemental and nice person
ASilentObserver seemed to have a good understanding of my situation and gave the simple but useful advice I needed to hear. Personally, for me it helps when a listener keeps his or her word about helping me further with any situations that require some guidance.
he was very kind and helpful... He helped me clear my mind and get my thoughts aligned.. a good friend indeed
Awesome! Listened to me and very understanding and caring. Such a good listener. If I could, I would refer everybody to this listener over and over again. Thank you Obs
Great communication and understanding. Thank you for be8ng so helpful.
A professional listener who interacts in aesthetic way! Should try him to resolve all the ambiguous thoughts
Supportive person❤️
Was really nice, listend to what I had to say like they were my friend
This person is too amazing😇, wonderful👅 and too perfect❤ i would say if you want to have a better day check on him he would do anything to make you feel better he knows what he's doing stay safe a lot of people need you on here
very friendly and helpful.
Gave me really good advice
Great listener and made me feel much better! Loved the responses
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Questions Answered
Why can't I find motivation to get better?
August 10th, 2017 1:04pm
Why do I feel so inferior and worthless and useless all the time?
August 10th, 2017 1:09pm
How can I deal with being blamed for things that aren't my fault?
August 13th, 2017 6:21am
What do I do when my coworkers are harassing me?
August 20th, 2017 8:55am
What is living without any anxiety like?
July 17th, 2017 6:49am
Why do I always feel like people are laughing at me when I don't hear it?
August 20th, 2017 8:35am
Why do I feel that I am rejected or neglected by people?
August 3rd, 2017 7:10am
What's the easiest way to break up with someone?
July 26th, 2017 7:13am
How can I stop thinking about my ex?
February 22nd, 2018 12:52pm
When you are attached to someone, but you know its time to move on, how do you let go?
July 17th, 2017 1:03pm
Is it still worth trying if he/she broke up with me several times?
July 13th, 2017 6:21am
How can I forget about the bad memories of my past?
July 15th, 2017 4:41am
How do I start to live a life without the person I can't live without?
August 20th, 2017 8:48am
How can I stop thinking about him/her? Why my heart hurts so much?
September 20th, 2017 2:53pm
Should I go back to him/her?
July 13th, 2017 6:58am
How can I ever feel the same way about someone else?
July 17th, 2017 6:42am
What can I talk about with my crush?
August 1st, 2017 5:14am
I'm dating someone who has been cheated on. What should I do?
August 3rd, 2017 7:11am
Why is he ignoring me after breakup?
September 20th, 2017 2:47pm
What do I do if I love 2 people at once?
February 3rd, 2018 5:00pm
I love two different people. What should I do?
July 17th, 2017 6:56am
What is the difference between isolation and loneliness?
July 15th, 2017 4:39am
Why do I feel so lonely? I have many great friends who would support me but why do I feel this way?
February 27th, 2018 11:39am
How do I cope with my mental illness in college?
July 10th, 2017 1:42pm
How do I let go and move on?
August 10th, 2017 1:13pm
How should I respond when a friend asks me about another friend's secret?
July 17th, 2017 12:57pm
I think I'm falling in love with someone online. Is it possible ? I feel so bad
February 2nd, 2018 9:30am
My husband is a violent man but I cheated on him. Should I tell him?
March 9th, 2018 1:05pm
if you are in a relationship with someone, it is right to ask someone else for advice? considering they only know your part of story, and it could be unfair for your partner?
March 9th, 2018 1:08pm