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Number of ratings567 Number of reviews267 Listens toTeens & Over 18 LanguagesEnglish Listener sinceJul 4, 2017 Last activein last 6 months PathStep 2,450 People helped811 Chats4,540 Group support chats5,297 Listener group chats3,638 Forum posts12,571 Forum upvotes38,543
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"You are always one decision away from a totally different life."

Hello everyone, I'm known as Obs and I'm one of the members of the Community Management Team. 

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Please feel free to PM me with any questions or doubts regarding our community and roles. I am here with you to help with the best of my efforts while we keep building our community better each day with team efforts. 

I am unable to take chat requests right now as I am unable to respond timely. I request you to connect with other available listeners here-  Browse Listeners. We all are here with you to listen to and support you. 

Do not say, "I am having a bad day." Say, "I am having a character-building day." - Les Brown


Have a wonderful day and thanks for stopping by!!


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Thank you Community!
Group Support / by ASilentObserver
Last post
July 6th
...See more Hi, community. I'm writing to let you know that I'll be transitioning from my role as Community Manager at the end of September. It has been one of the greatest honors of my life to serve this community. The magic of 7 Cups has always been its members. While I know transitions can bring uncertainty, I've always seen my role as simply tending to a garden that was already beautiful. The seeds of compassion and support that you've all planted here will continue to grow and flourish. I leave knowing this space is in the best possible hands: yours. Thank you for your trust, your courage, and your endless compassion for one another. Going forward, Group Support, Verified Listener, and all other project needs can be routed to H (Heather225). I wish you all continued healing, growth, and connection. Thank you, and you all are an inspiration to me. I am grateful for all your support, compassion and encouragement to me. 🙏
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Vibe Check Initiative: Monthly Updates
Group Support / by ASilentObserver
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September 2nd, 2025
...See more Hello everyone, I hope you all had a wonderful past week and are taking gentle steps to take care of your well-being.  Today, we’re thanking the Vibe Setters who have been a supportive and lighthearted presence in the Member Community Chat in July 2025. Vibe setters are part of the Vibe check team, as the initiative was introduced last month to foster a welcoming, lively, and consistently active space for everyone to connect and have a good time.  Click here to read more about the initiative! [https://www.7cups.com/forum/groupmod/General_2446/MemberCommunityChatVibeCheckInitiativeLaunch_358599/] We had 8 members join the team with @Hotaru419 supporting for nearly 11 hours. Hotaru was awarded 1038 cheers. Please find stats of all their amazing work below. You are all truly appreciated, and thank you for making the Member Community Chat a fun space to engage with every day. Thank you, and great teamwork, everyone.  Additionally, if you’d like to contribute to our mission of making the Member Community Chat a better place each day for more lighthearted and fun interactions, please consider applying to join the Vibe Setters Club!  [https://www.7cups.com/forum/groupmod/General_2446/MemberCommunityChatVibeCheckInitiativeLaunch_358599/] Tag: @heather225 @Suryansh @Hotaru419 @courageousBike6399 @BeeCake @Intelligentprune8948 @DCcat1989 @okeyyyy @cosmiccharm
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Depression Support Chat: Light & Lift Initiative Launch
Depression Support / by ASilentObserver
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January 8th
...See more Hello everyone, We have been listening, and we know that sometimes, even in a supportive space, it can feel overwhelming to connect or find those moments of gentle uplift. We also know how powerful a shared experience or a simple positive thought can be when you are navigating tough times. That's why we're incredibly excited to launch Light & Lifts. Our goal with Light & Lifts is simple: to bring more consistent moments of understanding, gentle encouragement, and shared coping strategies right here in our group chat, without placing any heavy burden on anyone. We want to ensure that there's always a spark of comfort and a hand to reach out for, even on the toughest days. What is Light & Lifts All About? Light & Lifts is built on a structured schedule of positive prompts, shared insights, and support designed to gently uplift our spirits and remind us we're not alone. We're introducing a role, “Comfort Bringer,”  that will help us bring this initiative to life: 🌟 Comfort Bringers: These incredible members will sign up for short, regular time slots (like 15-30 minutes, a few times a week). Their mission? To share a pre-approved positive prompt, a coping tip they've found helpful, or just a gentle, encouraging thought, and encourage others to open up about their experiences and stories. They are here to seed uplifting and supportive discussions and offer a steady, supportive presence. Why "Light & Lifts"? We know that navigating depression can feel isolating. This initiative is designed to: * Provide consistent, gentle presence: No more feeling like you're entering an empty room when you need a little connection. * Share practical tools: Discover new coping strategies that have worked for others. * Foster peer connection: Find common ground and understanding through shared experiences. * Cultivate positivity: Inject small, manageable doses of hope and encouragement into your day. Recognition We appreciate everyone who helps make our community an awesome place. Comfort Bringers will be awarded 50 cheers per half-hour that you host, and the quota is one session per week to remain active on the team. How You Can Get Involved! We need help in building this initiative, so we invite you to step forward and become Comfort Bringers. Your presence, even for a short time each week, can make a big difference. Ready to help us light up our community? 👉 [Link to Sign-Up Form Here [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSd8oG3Ff2vTNkCLzCOP2QS09t5xTaHubAo06812f2AyZTFqqQ/viewform?usp=preview]] Once you apply, ASilentObserver [http://7cups.com/@ASilentObserver]or Suryansh [http://7cups.com/@Suryansh]will reach out with more information and support. Please don't hesitate to message us if you have any questions! Thank you for being part of this community and for considering how you can help bring more Light & Lifts to everyone here. Let's create an even more supportive and understanding space together. 💖 @Suryansh @heather225 @Kieran000
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Member Community Chat: Vibe Check Initiative Launch
Group Support / by ASilentObserver
Last post
July 30th, 2025
...See more Hello everyone! I hope you're all doing great. We're super excited to announce a brand new initiative designed to bring even more energy and fun to our Member Community Room. Get ready for the launch of Vibe Check. We have all been there – scrolling through a quiet chat, wishing there was more going on. Sometimes our Member Community Room can feel a little sleepy, or moments get lost in the shuffle. We want to make sure it's always a welcoming, lively, and consistently active space for everyone to connect and have a good time. This is where Vibe Check comes in. We believe by adding some structured fun, we can keep the conversations flowing and make sure there's always something engaging happening. Vibe Check is all about scheduled "vibe checks" and awesome conversation starters to keep our chat buzzing with good energy. We're looking for enthusiastic members to join our team as: * Vibe Setters:  As a Vibe Setter, you'll sign up for short, regular slots (think 15-30 minutes, daily or every other day) to kick off conversations, ask thought-provoking questions, or post lighthearted challenges. Your main goal? To spread good vibes and get everyone chatting. What to Expect Our Vibe Setters will be bringing you: * Daily questions to get your brain (and chat) active, like "What's the funniest thing that happened today?" or "If you could only eat one food for the rest of your life, what would it be?" * Scheduled times to share your favorite funny or relatable memes and GIFs. * Short, positive shout-outs to community members who are bringing great vibes. Recognition We appreciate everyone who helps make our community awesome. Vibe Setters will be awarded 50 cheers per half-hour that you host, and the quota is one session per week to remain active on the team. Sign Up! Ready to help us keep the Member Community Room lively and full of positive energy? Please use this form to sign up and become a Vibe Setter: Click here [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe9-Np_13e4_MVhJ0EKNSXGAk2aNM7fbUuIYnatk5VfrryJOA/viewform?usp=preview]!  Once you've applied, a project leader will get in touch with more information and be your point of contact. If you don't hear back within 4 days, feel free to send me a direct message  ASilentObserver [http://7cups.com/@ASilentObserver]. Thank you all for being such an incredible part of our community. Let's make the Member Community Room the most vibrant place to be! We're looking forward to your applications!
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2025 Community Cupcake Winners 🎉🎊✨
Community Projects & Events / by ASilentObserver
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July 12th, 2025
...See more Today marks 12 years of 7 Cups bringing support and connection to people all over the world. The PB & Smalls Awards have been our way of recognizing the outstanding dedication of our listeners and leaders who consistently go above and beyond to support our community. You've all shown incredible empathy, wisdom, and commitment, and we've loved celebrating you. Now, we want to shine a bright light on another vital part of 7 Cups: you, our members! We see the countless ways you help make this a warm, supportive, and safe space for everyone. Whether it's through your thoughtful posts, your kind words to others, or simply by being an active and engaged presence, your contributions are essential to our community. To celebrate our members and acknowledge your unique role in strengthening our community, we're excited to introduce a brand new award: the Community Cupcake badge! This special badge is designed to recognize members who consistently embody the spirit of 7 Cups through their: * Positive engagement: Regularly contributing to discussions and fostering a constructive atmosphere. * Supportive interactions: Offering encouragement and empathy to fellow members. * Active participation: Being a consistent and valued part of our community. In the spirit of 7 Cups, we have selected 7 members who tick all these boxes. In no particular order, they are… * AffyAvo AffyAvo is a wonderfully supportive and insightful presence in the 7 Cups forums. With nearly 11 years as a dedicated participant, she consistently offers thoughtful advice and gentle guidance within the forums. She is also a well-known and highly esteemed advocate and champion within the Disability Support community. Affy has a knack for clarifying things with kindness, always ready to lend a hand and ensure others feel heard and understood. Her long-standing commitment and consistent positive impact mean so much to our community. What truly stands out is her diligence and commitment to safety; she's always looking out for everyone's well-being, helping to maintain a secure and nurturing atmosphere for all, driving the heart of the 7 Cups mission and values. We are delighted to honor AffyAvo with this award, a testament to her profound and lasting influence. * Jesusredeemedme2425 If you’ve been out in the forums in the past few years, you’ve likely seen Kiara’s posts. She’s well known for her individual user appreciation threads. I once asked her what her inspiration was for making them, and she told me, “I love loving people. I know these guys are struggling, which is why they’re here. I really want to show people that they’re loved and they matter.” Kiara is a true champion of our members, earning widespread respect and demonstrating the incredible impact individuals can have within our community. She’s also not afraid to show vulnerability and welcome love when she needs it. I hope everyone gets to interact with Kiara at least once here on Cups. Kiara, your compassion is truly a gift to our community, and we are delighted to celebrate you with this award. * Tinywhisper11 Tinywhisper11 is a truly remarkable and influential presence on 7 Cups. Her unique blend of deep empathy and wisdom has made a profound impact in community morale, especially within the forums where her guidance is often sought and highly valued. She consistently fosters an environment where members feel genuinely supported and understood, helping countless individuals navigate their challenges with grace. Beyond her insights, Tiny is also known for her sweet nature and wonderful sense of humor, bringing light and warmth to every interaction. She embodies the spirit of compassion and connection that is central to 7 Cups, and her long-standing dedication has helped shape the supportive culture we all cherish. We are incredibly honored to present this award to Tiny, celebrating her exceptional influence and her significant contributions to our community. big hugs to you, Tiny! * Mytwistedsoul Mytwistedsoul has been an active force on 7 Cups since 2018 and has really enriched the member side of Cups during their time. Mytwistedsoul is one of the most dedicated people we know of when it comes to the Trauma community; their focus is on DID/OSDD and the effects it has on those who live with it and those who are around those who live with it. They are always so welcoming and kind when they host their discussions and you truly feel like no question is too silly. It's this hands-on, pervasive support, and their realness as a relatable individual, that makes Mytwistedsoul approachable for so many navigating their healing journeys. They are well deserving of this award and the acknowledgement for all the amazing kindness and compassion they put into our community. Congratulations and thanks for all you do! * VictoriaLove7 VictoriaLove7 is always cheering up people and celebrating achievements with beautiful threads, very well designed and with thoughtful texts, demonstrating a lot of work and dedication. * BestVase7265 BestVase7265 keeps a low profile, so is mostly unknown in the Community, but as a Member since March 2016, has posted more than 20,000 extremely supportive posts, and is a staple in the Depression Support community, where they have been Forum Supporter for years. Incredibly consistent, day after day, and effective in supporting people going through tough times, and we can always count on them for their thoughtful replies. We are so happy to highlight their work! The Community Cupcake badge symbolizes the sweetness and warmth you bring to 7 Cups every single day. Just like a cupcake brings a little bit of joy, your presence makes our community a brighter place.  Please join us and congratulate these amazing individuals for their outstanding contributions and celebrate them together. Thank you all for being awesome !! 
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Building Our Best Vibe: A Quick Group Chat Guidelines Refresher
Group Support / by ASilentObserver
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July 10th, 2025
...See more Hello 👋 We have got something super special going on here – a safe and supportive space where we can all connect, share, and grow. To make sure it stays that way for everyone, especially new faces, let's have a quick reminder about our Group Chat Guidelines. Think of them as our community's roadmap for awesome interactions. Building a Welcoming Vibe for Everyone Sometimes, without even realizing it, group chats [https://www.7cups.com/connect/groupChatrooms.php]can start to feel a bit like exclusive clubs. We want to make sure that doesn't happen here. Every single one of you brings something unique and valuable to our community, and we want everyone to feel seen, heard, and like they truly belong. That means being extra mindful of how we interact. Let's quickly go over some key points from our guidelines that help us all be more inclusive: * Be Respectful & Kind: This is huge! Our chat thrives on kind, supportive, and open-minded conversations. Let's make sure we're always creating an atmosphere where kindness comes first. * Be Inclusive - Use English: For everyone to understand and participate easily, please stick to English in the main chat. This helps new members jump right in and feel part of the conversation. * Be Considerate - No Cliques, No Spam: Let's keep the focus on general support and positive vibes. Avoid long, private conversations that might make others feel left out, and no spamming. * Use Your Mute Button for Conflict: If you're not vibing with someone, that mute button is your friend! It helps you avoid conflict and keeps the room a positive space for everyone else. Let's resolve personal disagreements in private messages.  * To check out more guidelines, you can do one of the following: * If you are on desktop or app, click on (...) three dots at the top of the right side of the chat box to open the drop-down menu and click on "Group Chat Rules" to read the guidelines. * You can also directly click on this link (Click here [https://www.7cups.com/community-guidelines/Member-Group-Chat-Guidelines-3d56fad48fea49caaeb588a53d30bfe1]) to read the member group chat guidelines as part of the community guidelines [https://www.7cups.com/community-guidelines/].    Take a quick refresher quiz on group chat guidelines and share your score with us here. Click here for the quiz!  [https://forms.gle/S2qj383Sq5dcia7t7] Please know these guidelines are not just rules; they're the foundation of a truly supportive and inclusive community. When we all follow them, we ensure that every teen, whether they've been here for ages or just joined today, feels welcome and can fully participate. Let's make sure our kindness and openness shine through, welcoming every new voice with open arms. Read these guidelines? Did you take the quiz? Awesome! Let us know you've got this by commenting "I'm in!" and sharing your quiz score below! 👇 ------------------------- P.S.:  1. Thank you to all teens for coming together and coming up with this idea to ensure an inclusive and supportive environment for all in the group chats. 2. If you are encouraged to check this post and take the quiz by any teen member, listeners, or moderator, please know that I requested them to share it with you all. If you know someone too, please share this post and quiz with them too and encourage them to take it.  3. Thank you for being with us. 
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Become a Room Supporter- Join the Group Support Team
Group Support / by ASilentObserver
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July 8th, 2025
...See more Hello everyone, We have got some exciting news about becoming a Room Supporter – a pivotal role in our community that allows you to truly make a difference in the lives of other teens. What Does a Room Supporter Do? Being a Room Supporter is more than just listening; it's about being a pillar of positivity and creating a safe, welcoming space where every teen feels understood and valued. You'll be on the front lines, helping foster healthy, supportive conversations in our group chat rooms and ensuring everyone feels seen, empathized with, and included. * Hear from our current Room Supporters! * "Being a Room Supporter showed me how much a few kind words can change someone's day. It's gratifying!" - Room supporter (Adult) * "I've learned so much about active listening and empathy. It's not just supporting others, it's personal growth too." - Room supporter, (Teen) * "Being a Room Supporter in the Student Support room has given me the chance to do something that’s always mattered to me: To be there for others. I found so much joy in listening to wonderful individuals from all around the world (students, graduates, and anyone willing to join the room) as they shared their stories and got the support they needed. The most rewarding part for me was hearing them say that they felt safe and uplifted in this wonderful space we created together." – SweetSunset92  * "I'm so grateful to be a Room Supporter on 7 Cups! What drew me to this role was the chance to use my words and voice to help others, and it's been so rewarding for me." - CandleLight06  Why Volunteer as a Room Supporter? Beyond the incredible impact you'll have on others, becoming a Room Supporter offers some fantastic benefits for you: * Skill Development: Hone your communication, active listening, and empathy skills – invaluable for life! * Community Building: Become a central part of our vibrant, supportive community and make lasting connections. * Personal Growth: Discover your own resilience, confidence, and leadership potential. * Leadership Opportunity: After just a month, you can even apply to become a Chatroom Moderator, taking on more responsibility and shaping our support system. Are You the Perfect Fit? We're looking for individuals, whether you're a seasoned Listener or an active Member, who are: * Compassionate, Kind, Welcoming, Non-judgmental, and Open-minded. * Eager to make a tangible difference in someone's day. * Ready to collaborate, cooperate, and communicate with a supportive team. * Mindful of their own needs and the needs of others in the chatroom. Ready to Step Up? Here's How to Apply! We've made some positive changes to make the application process even smoother. Step 1. Check Your Eligibility: For LISTENERS: * No "Newbie" badge (meaning you've been a listener for 4+ weeks). * Have participated in 2+ Group Support Chats. For MEMBERS: * No "Newbie" badge (meaning you've been a member for 4+ weeks). * Have the "Supportive Smile" badge. * Completed the "Compassion Course." (If you can't see the Group Support Chat rooms, make sure you've checked out the new criteria required to unlock them!) [https://www.7cups.com/forum/groupmod/CommunityManagersOffice_2008/NewCriteriatoAccessGroupChatsLiveNow_281153/%5C] Your Listener Reputation [https://www.7cups.com/about/faqBadgesCheers.php](badges, cheers, compassion hearts) and Member Reputation [https://www.7cups.com/about/memberReputation.php] (badges, growth points, compassion hearts) are also considered! Step 2. Submit Your Application: [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSetyJ7jp7W52-EIpqvFYLhfmpsgTW4BbzUwmi9r22OQ9AdH8w/viewform] If you meet the requirements above, it's time to fill out the Application Form! [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSetyJ7jp7W52-EIpqvFYLhfmpsgTW4BbzUwmi9r22OQ9AdH8w/viewform]We'll review it within 2-3 working days. While you wait, keep engaging in the chatrooms – your continued support helps you become an even more amazing Room Supporter! Step 3. Complete Your Training: If your application is successful, a Group Support Leader will reach out with an invitation to our training. Read the guides carefully and complete the modules. Step 4. Get Recognized: Once you pass the training, you'll be officially listed as a "Room Supporter" on the leaderboards of your focused sub-communities and notified personally by your Group Support Leader. Step 5. Dive In! Visit your assigned chat rooms, connect with your community members, and start providing that invaluable support. What to Expect as a Room Supporter: * Proactive Participation: Engage with members, listeners, and moderators to build a stronger community. * Safe Environment Creation: Actively work to foster a compassionate, supportive, and safe space for everyone. * Healthy Conversation Champion: Facilitate positive discussions by hosting check-ins in your focused chat rooms and co-hosting at least 1 hour per team you support (max 2 teams). * Active Group Listening: Provide meaningful support through dedicated listening. * Team Collaboration: Communicate and cooperate with your team members to brainstorm ideas, suggest solutions, and address concerns. FAQs about the Room Supporter Role: * Q: How much time does it take to be a Room Supporter? A: We ask for a commitment to host/co-host at least 1 hour per team you support (maximum of 2 teams). Beyond that, your active participation in community building makes a big difference! * Q: How long does the application process take? A: Once you submit your application, we typically review it within 2-3 working days. Training invitations follow successful applications. * Q: What if I don't meet all the requirements yet? A: Keep engaging in the community! Work on earning the necessary badges and meeting the chat activity requirements. Every interaction helps you grow. * Q: Can I apply to be a Chatroom Moderator right away? A: You'll need to be a Room Supporter for at least a month and meet other specific criteria before applying for the Moderator role. It's a great next step on your leadership journey! We can't wait to see you step into this impactful role and help us build an even stronger, more supportive community! Your compassion can change lives. We look forward to hearing from you! @suryansh @heather225
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Your Space to Be Heard! Join The Sharing Circle
Group Support / by ASilentObserver
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August 9th, 2025
...See more Hello everyone, You might remember the Sharing Circles—an initiative we launched a while back to create a unique space for support and connection. Fast-forward five years, and the heart of what we aimed to build is more vital than ever. We know life throws a lot at us, and sometimes, all we need is a place where we can share what's on our minds and hearts, without interruption, without judgment, and with the full attention of others. That's exactly what our Sharing Circles are meant for. So, what makes these circles so powerful? It's all about intentional listening and turn-based sharing. Unlike regular discussions, this is a dedicated time for everyone to get a chance to speak and truly be heard. Imagine a circle where you can express your feelings, and others are there to simply listen and then offer encouragement. It is a truly supportive and uplifting experience designed to help you feel seen and valued. Here's how it works: When you join a Sharing Circle, our host will invite participants to enter a queue (usually by typing a simple “*”). Then, each person gets their turn to share. Once you've spoken, the rest of the group can offer encouraging and comforting words of support. It is a structured way to ensure everyone gets their moment to be heard and uplifted. Why should you participate? In a world that's often noisy and fast-paced, the Sharing Circle is your safe space. It's a place to: * Feel truly heard: Share your thoughts and feelings without interruption. * Connect deeply: Build genuine connections with community members. * Offer and receive support: Give encouragement and receive it when you need it most. * Practice mindful listening: Develop your empathy by truly hearing others. Ready to find your voice and connect? Whether you are looking to share, listen, or just be part of a supportive community, the Sharing Circles are for you. If you've been a part of our Sharing Circles, would you be willing to share a quick thought or testimonial about what the experience has meant to you?" or "For those of you who've already experienced the warmth of our Sharing Circles, we'd be so grateful if you could weigh in! What's one nice thing you can say about the support and connection you've found here? Your testimonials are a wonderful way to help new participants understand the unique value of this space.  Join the Sharing Circle here and let us know your experiences in the comments below.  [https://www.7cups.com/chat/?c=2_e900fbcbe5db2b7bSaBpz_hkdPa6dGxRZeleXg]
Feedback & Reviews
if there's something that outlasted the stars, its their kindness and dedication to making the world a better place. You are in our hearts, obs
Obs is a wonderful listener. They were very very kind to me & always so helpful. I think they are a great person and hope life treats them with the same kindness they show towards ppl here.
Wonderful person and friend. They are down to earth. Very helpful.
They made me feel a bit better and they took the time to explain things, so I could better understand. Thanks for your time.
I texted Obs although it was clearly mentioned on his bio that he wouldn't be able to take new member requests and it's all because I was unable to trust anyone else but him. And he didn't let me down. I never expected such humble and kind responses from anyone. I'm literally crying.... May God bless you and keep you safe and happy all the time.
Very kind and understanding, and fun to talk to
really observant and kind : ) obs is a great listener 100% recommend
this listener was emphatic loved chatting with obs would love to chat again.
Really well done on all accounts!
Obs is great
coolest coolest helpful person who knows how to take feedback and make a real difference on 7 cups
Obs has been tremendous support for me , always. I appreciate his presence in cups for responding promptly and doing what he can to be supportive of both listeners and members in 7 cups. Ive known him since around past 6 years and its always a pressure to see him in the rooms, the way he responds to people and his dicussions. It all shows his care and passion.
Really kind and helpful
really good listener!
Obs is always ready to help with questions and is very knowledgeable. It is a pleasure to have Obs here.
Best listener ever!
Helpful and open to understand
Very kind caring and supportive
incredible, good at time mangement
A very nice person. They try there best as Group Support Manager here at 7cups.
Very supportive. Very caring. Very understanding. Takes the time to listen to feedback from other Community Leaders. Very Professional. A very wise person.
ASlientObserver is a warm, caring person. They love being in group support. They are a good leader. They try there best to set a good example. They are good group support manager.
Always support and positive Sent information that is important to me to assistance me and also enhance my journey and support my chosen path.
amazinggggggggg
Obs is so patient, understanding, kind which makes them an amazing listener.
Obs is So helpful
We patient explaining answers to my questions.
Obs is such an amazing person, and I appreciate all of the contributions they have made to this wonderful community. Keep up the amazing work, and never change! ❤️❤️
An empathetic mind!
This person is very genuine and caring and honest. It was a shear pleasure interacting with them. I highly recommend them as someone to talk too and you should feel much much better afterwards. Definitely a pillar of this 7 cups community indeed. 10/10 service.
Obs is so nice and very patient. He is one of the best listeners there is, and I would give him a million stars if I could.
A wonderful person who goes the extra mile to make this a platform that is user friendly . They were patient responsive and very helpful.
He understands me. He just did thank you a thousand times
He's just the best
Really helpful and motivational
The best hands down so understanding and caring
He is a very nice person, he is willing to go extra mile just to help. He is deserves a million dollars tbh😂
Very good communicator and answers automatically when gets a chance, nice friendly too..
Obs is always pleasant and enjoyable to chat with, even in minor interactions. :)
A great listener who helped sort my emotions and lended a listening ear to my problems when no one was there to listen to them
He was very attentive, loyal, kind, Supportive and Empathetic Listener. Thanks you so much ASilentObserver 🥰♥️
Very attentive and considerate person, thank you for your help
great listener helpful
Very kind and understanding i loved talking to obs I highly recommend talking to obs if you need a helping hand
Very kind person. Encourages me a lot.
ASilentObserver was very kind and open to hearing my concerns. Also, very quick to respond and seemed forthright.
They helped me a lot just by listening, it was great talking to them.
Good he is very helpful
Hard worker. Amazing person.
thank you. You're wonderful
Hard working person for cups. Appreciate all that he does for us
Great person. Very Kind and very helpful.
Responds quickly and gets to the point.
Great Listener.
Super helpful, thanks so much
Always doing a great job. Very observant! ;)
Good hope we can continue
Great chat. I feel valued as a member.
*huggles* thank you soo much
They are very soothing.
Amazing listener! Thank you for taking the time to listen to my concerns and worries, and give real thought out answers which helped me realize things. It made me feel really listened to 💛
very patient listener
I was lucky to talk to him. He is knowledgeable on many topic and he understood me very well in short time. Gave me nice suggestion when asked. It was worth talking to him. Compassionate.. Empathy and have patient and easy to talk. definitely can be recommend to other. God bless you and you be happy always.
Great listener! Provided very helpful thoughts.
Helped me deal with the problem which was bugging me from a long time
I loved the chat.. it was what you might call refreshing... 😄
OBS is so caring
Really great listener
Very thoughtful in responses, really gives you a sense that they care and genuinely want to help
Really helped to talk things through
very helpful, caring and understanding
Such a warm heart!🤗
Amazing Listener as always :) Makes me feel a lot better after our conversation :)
One of the best listeners I have ever met. Responds and is there whenever I needed him. Makes me feel a lot better!:)
He was very nice and understanding to me, and helped me talk through my anxiety. I had a good time talking with him.
very kind and amazing listener
I am so thankful for the help and useful tips that I get,great advice!
I find the support valuable and appreciate the advice
Really useful communucation,friendly,helpful advice
Thank you.
Great Listener:) empathizes with you and understands. Feel a lot better after our conversation :)
Thank you very much. Thanks for helping with Bipolar awareness / relationships -- very important topic.
I found some great support from @ASilentObserver and a genuine,caring attitude.I much appreciate his help!
An amazing and caring person. They helped me through a really rough time.
amazing person genuinely kind and caring always responsive really helped me in my time of need thank you so much
Very caring and helpful
Silent is awesome, as always. Great listener, always there when I need to talk to someone and provides a compassionate ear to my seemingly minuscule problems.
Awesome!!! Love Obs!
Super understanding and sweet, thank you!
Always help and has insightful inputs
Had a fruitful and enlightening session helped me see things clearer and understand better where I was lagging
great
Understanding, smart, attentive, interactive, caring.
Obs is extremely helpful, understanding, and caring. I felt like I wasn't being judged, so thank you so much for your advice and I'll be coming again when I need more help!
Very helpful and understanding. She will lsten to what ever u have to say and try to help u sort out ur thoughts and help u with what's going on I highly recommend her
Thanks for your time
You're Kind. Thanks
amazing
awesome as always and very helpful
Thank you silentObs. You have been really helpful.
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