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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

ThankYouForLettingMeTryingToHelp
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4.5 star rating
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1) My response times are slow. Even when I am working on making them faster, if you talk with me please note there will be delays. Thank you for your patience and understanding. 2) I help myself when I help you. 3) I had a 7Cups Gmail e-mail address, but I deleted it from this Profile page on 06/Feb/2020 because it is NOT OK to publish it here. 4) Some issues with my Username: * 08/August/2019: On this day, I found out that "ThankYouForLettingMeTryingToHelp" should be instead ThankYouForLettingMeTryToHelp. It seems the first one is Grammarly incorrect in English. I am sorry for my mistake. Thank you for pointing it out, @Nada and @DestroyingAngel.  * 18/October/2019: On this day, a 7Cups Member told me this: "Your name is still incorrect. ThankYouForLettingMeTryingToHelp. We all know that if you are "trying" you are not doing. A man should not try his best, a man should do his best. Your name subconsciously sends a message that you will "try" which implies failure is the most likely outcome. ThankYouForLettingMeHelp would be much more appropriate and will send a positive message that you will help." * 14/November/2019: On this day, a 7Cups Member told me this: "Saying "trying to help" means you will do your best expecting nothing from those you encounter. The way your username is written seems perfect. To me it seems humble and that you know that not everyone can be helped." 5) Apart from being a Verified Listener and an Intern Graduate, my other roles on 7Cups are OR have been: * Safety Patrol (flagging of inappropriate Listener profiles) {2022.10.25} * Member of the DJ Team (leaded by @Caringbrit) {2022.10.25} * Community Leader: Room Supporter -> Healthy Living Support Community [https://www.7cups.com/home/healthyliving/]; 35 & Over Community [https://www.7cups.com/home/35plus/]; Positivity & Gratitude Community [https://www.7cups.com/home/gratitude/] {2022.10.25} * Forum Supporter {2022.10.25} * Peer Supporter {2022.10.25} 6) Some useful Links: (thank you @versatileStrings1578 for your help on the update of the list!!) Inside 7Cups: * Listener Topic Library  [https://www.7cupsoftea.com/forum/ListenersOnlyForums_38/ListenerGuidesLibrary_129/ListenerSupportGuidesListTheLibrary_7596/]-----> Manuals on how to handle all types of chats, written by listeners * Listener Suggestion Box [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1klLqfn1ipgbudpxDQsk2tlBxhsOL44z5hnWU865Tig4/viewform] -----> Suggest ways to help improve the site, or how to address any problems you see (For any bugs or glitches, use this separate form [https://www.7cupsoftea.com/supportDesk.php]) * Everything I need to know I learned from my bunny [http://www.7cupsoftea.com/forum/Testimony_50/ListenersTestimony_174/EverythingINeedToKnowILearnedFromMyBunny_9034/] ------> If you ever get disheartened, refresh yourself with some leporine wisdom * Kane’s FAQ [https://www.7cupsoftea.com/forum/ListenersOnlyForums_38/FAQforNewListeners_106/FrequentlyAskedQuestions_11301/] -----> Everything you could possibly ask for in a guide to this site * Farheen’s Guide  [http://www.7cupsoftea.com/forum/ListenersOnlyForums_38/ListenerGuidesLibrary_129/BeginningActiveListeningSomeimportantpoints_2094/1/]-----> The best active listening guide there is. Fact. * Pink’s Distractions [https://www.7cupsoftea.com/forum/AnxietySupportCommunity_53/SocialAnxietySupportSharing_247/PinksAmazinglyAwesomeListofLinksandDistractions_21135/] -----> All different types of self-harm distraction websites and techniques * International Suicide Hotlines  [http://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1qZBw0JyVC8IVeUtXQJtvSMIKV7yI07XHggPGtzZceT0/edit#gid=0]-----> Handy to have close by you when you listen * L [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/ListenerSupportGuidesandHowtos_1850/ListenerSupportGuidesMasterList_228279/]istener Support Guides Master List [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/ListenerSupportGuidesandHowtos_1850/ListenerSupportGuidesMasterList_228279/] Outside 7Cups: * World Time Buddy [http://www.worldtimebuddy.com/] ----> We are a global community, and we work in a lot of different time zones. Most things are organised in EST (New York’s time zone), and it can be useful to have some help working out what time it is for the people you are talking to, or when events are happening. * Copypastecharacter.com  [http://copypastecharacter.com/symbols] -----> It helps to cheer up drab forum posts ✌ 7. thankyouforlettingmetryingtohelp.youcanbook.me [http://thankyouforlettingmetryingtohelp.youcanbook.me/] -----> This WAS the link to book an appointment with me. I am keeping it here just for the records, BUT I AM NOT USING IT ANYMORE :( 8. I also kept a Diary on 7Cups, which has been deleted. Info I have been given about this, by the person who performed the deletion, may not be allowed to be published here.
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hopedreamlove
L Epitome 10 2040
5.0 star rating
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Listens toTeens & Over 18 Last activein last week
☕️ I am really sorry, but I am unable to take new member chats at the moment and will not be able to respond to messages. You can find a wonderful listener using the Browse Listeners page. I truly hope you find the support you deserve!  🌺 Thank you to Tazzie, the incredible human who coded this bio and helped me become the listener and leader I am today. Thank you so much for everything. Rest In Peace.  ☕️ Hi you! Yes, you! The incredible human being who might be struggling and who deserves compassion and kindness. I may not have gone through the same experiences as you, but I can understand and acknowledge that you are in immense pain. It can be incredibly difficult reaching out for support, I am so proud of you for taking the first step to find support. Things may seem difficult or even impossible right now, but you are not alone. You matter, are worthy, and valid. 🌺 Hello hello hello! I am Hope or Jasmine, a Muslim, South Asian-American living in Canada. I am a young adult who is navigating through the ups and downs of life. I have been called the "Queen of Typos," so that probably tells you something about me! I adore coffee, listening to music (especially Broadway songs),  watching TV shows, and learning about the world. I am in university, studying computer science. I discovered this site about three years ago, and fell in love with this fantabulous community. I believe everyone has their own story, and I am here on 7 cups because I would be honored to listen to yours. ☕️ My listening style is a bit different from most, in the way that my messages are usually longer and reflect and provide my insight on what you said. It will still be your chat, and you will have the power to direct the topic to what you are looking to talk about. I do not take chats on eating disorders, alcohol/drug use, sexual abuse and sexual health at the moment, thank you for understanding! I am most comfortable providing support to those ages 13-20. I unfortunately cannot wave a magic wand and solve any problems you might be having (I absolutely would if I could) but instead I can provide a listening ear and be there for you. I strongly believe in kindness and respect which I always incorporate in my conversations. During our chat, I will also empower and validate you while creating a safe place for you to talk in my pms. It has lots of cookies, hugs, and any other treats or comfort items you want. 🌺 Projects/Roles I am currently involved with: Verified Listener, Adult Teen Listener, Chatroom Ambassador (with a primary focus on resources, the listener Chatroom supporter role, and the Teen Listeners room),  Teen Chatroom Leader, Teen Chatroom Mentor, Adult and Teen Quality Mentor, Forum Mentor, Doorkeeper ☕️ This is a safe and inclusive profile for all. While there are some topics mentioned above that I do not take due to personal reasons, I will not ever discriminate or judge you. People of all genders, sexualities, race, religions, beliefs, and identities are welcome here! Thank you so much for taking the time to visit my profile. I hope you have a lovely day! Click here for a surprise! [https://i.imgur.com/NgyXfd1.gif]
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KatRebane
L Sage 11 3015
4.5 star rating
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Listens toOver 18 Last activein last week
I am unable to assist with self-esteem and related problems, self-harm or with emotion management (e.g. grief, anger). Thank you for understanding.   My name's Katariina, I've joined 7 Cups in hopes of guiding those experiencing emotional and/or mental distress by providing a safe environment without prejudice to talk and insight through sharing knowledge of psychiatry and philosophy. Please be mindful that although I never have the intention of being rude, my stern professionalism may come across as insensitive. If you're uncomfortable with my listening style for any reason, please inform me so that I can better accommodate you.   Topics I can best help with:  Mental illness (disorders) (specifically dissociative identity disorder/multiple personality disorder (DID/MPD) and other dissociative (and conversion) disorders; also behavioural and social deficits, like those present in autism spectrum disorders/Asperger's syndrome (ASD) and other developmental disorders; bipolar disorder and mania; delirium and other psychogenic illnesses (neurosis); antisocial/dissocial (ASPD), avoidant, dependent (DPD), sadistic, schizoid (SzPD) personality disorders; and psychosis-related disorders, including schizophrenia); LGBTQ+ issues; and trauma.   These are not all the topics I am comfortable with, although I accept all requests dealing with any of the above, even when marked as busy. If I'm online, don't hesitate in sending me a request! If you see that I'm offline, please leave me a message and I'll respond asap. I accept casual/loneliness chats, but am not skilled at leading conversation, therefore without a topic the chat might not gain momentum.   I might not be the best listener for those looking to move on, or find acceptance, (breakups, loss/grief, diabetes and disability); and situational/life stresses (bullying, financial, school, work, parenting, etc.).   I am not comfortable discussing self-esteem (i.e. negative body image and eating disorders, shame, feelings of worthlessness and social anxiety) or feelings such as anger and envy. Please seek another listener that can better complement you.  If you are still wondering if I'm the right listener for you please feel free to request or message me with any questions that you might have.
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Yourstruly2000
L Guru 7 1896
5.0 star rating
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Listens toTeens & Over 18 Last activein last month
chats i dont take: self harm, loneliness Get in here!! Everything will be alright , we will figure this out together, Do not worry!! I am here for you.
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cocoakrispies121
L Scholar 1 336
5.0 star rating
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Listens toOver 18 Last activein last month
*Not logging on currently, Please do not message if you are in need of immediate help* Hey there! I am Cocoa, a listener here on 7 Cups! I'm super happy to have you here. I would love to talk to you! The topics I'm most comfortable with are Anxiety, [https://www.7cups.com/home/anxiety/] General Mental Health [https://www.7cups.com/home/generalsupport/], Self-Harm [https://www.7cups.com/home/selfharm/], and ADHD/ADD. [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ADDADHDSupport_68/] (All of those are clickable!) I do *not* take chats of any sexual nature. I also do my best to keep my chats a safe, respectful, and supportive zone. Feel free to read on and learn more about me/what I do on 7 Cups! About me: •My pronouns are she/her! •I absolutely love music. •I play volleyball competitively!  •I play a little too much video games •I want to study Astronomy/Astrophysics when I get older •I love all things space! •I have been a listener for over 3 years! When I am usually online: Monday, Tuesdays, and Wednesdays from 9 pm to 1 or 2 am EST. Please also note, that I do not have a booking method. I cannot commit to hourly appointments, as my time on cups changes, and moves around a lot. Please allow for sometime between responses, especially if it is during the day. I'm typically more active at night. Please in chats, do not call me names like babe, baby, or honey. They make me uncomfortable, and it would be awesome if you avoid them! Thank you! What I do on 7 Cups: (Update in July 2022: This list has very much changed and is outdated!) -I am a verified listener! This means I have completed a mock chat to ensure I am a high quality listener! -I support long term members! (On break) If you are a member, and you feel as thought a chat once or twice with me won't help you, you can become part of my long term member support. Reach out to me for more information and specfics! -I am on the Safety Patrol team! I help keep 7 Cups safe by flagging inappropriate profiles! If you feel like a profile needs to be flagged, feel free to PM me. -I am a Peer Supporter! I help listeners after they have had a difficult/triggering chat. -I lead Discussions! Join me in the Anxiety and Self Harm Recovery rooms for different discussions! -I am a member of the DJ Team! I help screen songs for the 7 Cups DJ. -I am a Teen Community Star! I am a Community Mentor for the Self-Harm Recovery community! Feel free to PM me about possible Mentoring! -I am a chat supporter! I help other listeners when they feel stuck of need help in a chat! -I am a chatroom moderator! I help moderate the Anxiety and Self-Harm Recovery rooms! -Forum Supporter! I create forum posts and help out in the Self-Harm Recovery forums! -I am a Teen Quality Star! I help listeners improve on their active listening skills! My colors of availability: Green: I am online, and I can take a chat. If you see green, then send me a message! Orange: I am online but busy, meaning I am probably at max capacity for chats/activities I can do at a time. Send me a message and I will get back to you as soon as possible Red: I am not online, but feel free to leave me an offline message. On Break: This usually is a text on the top of my profile, but it means I'm on break! I typically don't respond quick when I'm on break, and can take quite a bit of time to. Please keep that in mind if you leave me a message during that time! My listener twinnies/Listeners I would like to give appreciation to: @ashlyntheordinary- Ashlyn is one of the most kind and caring people I have ever had the chance to talk to! She supports me when I try new things and encourages me all the time!! I'm looking forward to many more chats with her ;") Click here [https://www.7cups.com/@ashlyntheordinary] to view their profile! @DayDreamWithYou- Dream is super amazing!! She is always there for me when I need her, and always does her best to help me. She is awesome to have a conversation with, and I am super privileged to be able to chat with her :) Click here [https://www.7cups.com/@DayDreamWithYou] to view their profile! @enchantedlove- Mary-Kate is one of the most enthusiastic and caring people I have ever met! She is so incredibly supportive and kind to everybody around her. She always brightens my day and makes me feel better <3 Click here [https://www.7cups.com/@enchantedlove] to view their profile! 🍪🍪🍪 (cookies for anybody who made it this far)
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