Please read all. I do work on relationships, But I only focus on Current, Active, In Person Relationships between F/M, F/F, M/M. Please read on
I am Not able assist with chats that include the serious issues of: Friends or Family issues, Anxiety, Depression, Overthinking, Breakups, EX Relationships, Crushes, Dating advice, On line or Text Only Relationships or Long Distance Relationships.
I have made the choice to specialize in the type of chats that I participate in based on my experience here to date and what I have been successful with. Apologies if I cannot assist you
Thanks for your understanding. I want you to connect with the best listener for you. I'm sincerely sorry and once again apologize if this does not work for everyone. With that in mind.....
I will chat with you openly and honestly without judgement. Many times there is not a perfect solution. Sometimes just the best bad option at the time. I do feel what you tell me ...but I am NOT an empathy machine or a total advice dispenser like Siri or Google . Please know this in advance that I feel what you are going through. My styIe is not for everyone.
I attempt to help you to find your own solutions.
So I am into cars, game, music -- more so music videos on youtube. We can talk about anytinng you want to. I tried here once and it wasn't the best.. so I will promise to try to help thats all I can do.
I'm an ordained rabbi (and verified LISTENER!!), from a secular upbringing. Every human has an important place in this world, which means... YOU ARE IMPORTANT!!! If you're looking for an intelligent, kind and thoughtful ear, you've come to the right place!
"You are always one decision away from a totally different life."Hello Community, I am known as Obs. I am a 7Cups Ambassador and one of the Community Mentor Leaders of the Relationship and Friendship Support Subcommunity. I am also a ✨ Chatroom Mentor ✨ Quality Mentor ✨ Forum Mentor ✨ DoorkeeperPlease feel free to message me, if you have any questions or doubts regarding the community and roles. I am here with you to help with the best of my efforts. Note- I am unable to take chat requests as I am unable to respond timely. I request to connect with other available listeners here- Browse Listeners. We all are here with you to listen and support. Do not say, "I am having a bad day." Say, "I am having a character building day." - Les Brown
Geek || Food Lover || Writer || Student || Gamer || Traveller ||
If you feel like talking about anything just drop me a pm :)
I don't take the following chat for personal reasons
1) Sexual Chats.
2) Suicidal/Self Harm Chat
3) Bipolar/ADHD/Borderline/Panic Attacks
I can help you with the following topics really well since I can relate to them
*Im not really good with divorce or maternal or marriage issues since im young and lack any experience in these.
My Favorite Quote is "“No one has ever become poor by giving.” ― Anne Frank
ONLY TAKING CHATS WITHIN MY TOPICS. IF POSSIBLE PLEASE READ MY PROFILE BEFORE SENDING A PERSONAL REQUEST. If you're in a too bad condition at least make sure you want to talk about something within my areas of expertise.Ich spreche auch Deutsch.Urgency first: If you are facing an acute situation like panic attack, flare up or urgent urge you don't need to read the rest of the text and can just drop me a request. I'll take care of you asap. If you're not in a situation like that please read on to see if I am the right Listener for you. If yes you're very welcome to contact me but you may have to wait a bit incase I am occupied with an urgent case, specially if my status is set to busy (orange).
Hello and welcome to 7cups. I'm Nadine from Germany, 22 years old and glad you read this. I had and still have to struggle with the things I offer support with and that's why I think I can help you with it. I understand you well and maybe I have suggestions, techniques or skills to help you. My top areas are living with chronic pain or disability, self-harm and panic attacks. I also have non-epileptic (dissociative) seizures which are quite much under control by now and I'd like to exchange experience about this anytime.In the following I will describe myself as a Listener and explain in what case I am the right one for you. It does not mean that I don't welcome other people. I just don't want to waste your time and want to make it easy for you to find a suitable Listener. If you select me as your Listener and I think there is a chance that I might be able to help then I will surely try my best to do so. Yet I do not take chats with any kind of sexual content, not from Members and Guests, nor from Listeners. If you message me with that I will tell you to leave and if you don't do so I might not have another opportunity than blocking you.If I was to describe myself as a listener I would say I'm mostly supportive, reassuring and encouraging. But despite all my empathy and understanding I still tend to be somewhat challenging. If you are looking for someone to pity you or just an empty space to vent to you might be better off with another listener. I am the right one if you are ready to fight in order to make a change for yourself. I can assure that you have my greatest support if you are willing to work with me and I will be here to guide you through whatever struggle you may face. So let us unite our strengths and try to pull you out of your misery. Please understand that it may take a lot of effort, time and patience before there will be any significant change for you but I can assure you that it will be all worth it in the end. However my favorite saying that I took from the saw movies which I really enjoy (don't worry ,I'm not a creep) is "CHERISH YOUR LIFE" and I hope i can help you to do that too along the way.Send me a personal request by chatting to me or leaving me a message if:
- you want to learn strategies to live with chronic pain, especially such that gets worse in flare ups (1)
- you want to manage daily life better with a disability (2)
- you want to stop self-harm (3)
- you want to cope better with panic attacks and possibly get rid of them (4)
- you want to talk about non-epileptic (dissociative/conversion /PNES ) seizures and eventually defeat them (5)- you want to talk about a trauma and /or any kind of dissociation, including DID (6)If you send a personal request please start the chat with a code number from 1 to 5 to show you have read this. I only take requests about these topics, thanks for understanding.I do provide long term support as well! Let me know straight away if you wish that.
If I am offline you can drop me a message still and I will get in touch when I see it.You should always try and choose a topic even for general requests as long as the thing you want to talk about matches any. This increases your chances to get connected to a suitable listener as quick as possible.
As well if you are in condition for this you should always try and find some time to leave a detailed and honest rating and review after each chat with a listener. It's not only that you can give something back to a helpful listener with a good one but mainly that you can help other members to find the suitable listener for them. It should roughly include the topic you talked about, what was good or bad about the chat and if you would recommend the listener to others struggling with the same. Don't worry, you stay anonymous and also you don't have to do it if you're not comfortable.
Thank you for finding me on 7 cups! I am a trained listener who has experienced a lot in life and is willing to help anyone going through their toughest times. I believe that anyone can overcome any obstacle in life as long as they are willing to commit and put in their 100% effort on improving themselves. So if you ever feel like you have no one to talk to or if you feel like you are alone, always remember that I am always there for you no matter what. Feel free to contact me anytime I am online, if at any time you want to contact me and I am offline please leave me a message letting me know what time you are available next and we can work something out :)
P.S Always remember... you are stronger than you think :)
I am glad you joined to seek for support! Please read the list of topics i discuss about with members, in order to have the right support!That's something i want to share with you all, enjoy! Click HERE and HEREI do not take chats whose topic is about sexAlso I can not schedule chats, if you need to converse with me you can reach me out when you see me around given I always keep the green (available) or orange status if i am connected (orange means busy but I am here so I can reply to you)
***I'm currently not taking any new members***
Hi I'm a guy and from the United States, I'm glad you have found me on 7cups of tea, feel free to contact me when I'm online. Even when everything seems dark, there's always going to be a light called hope.
"Sometimes we need to cry to let everything out, focus on other things to clear the mind and focus on other people to heal the heart"
"From now on the rain will seem less, and things will smile upon you. A new stage begins; doors of tomorrow"
"Always believe because you are truly are like an aurora, rare but at the same time unique that should always be shown"
"Look up to the sky and reach beyond it to see the unknown and even find a shooting star and with all your heart wish everything you set out to do comes true"
"Take a chance, take a chance and the path will clear, step over the horizon and know it was worth it"
"I want to be beautiful, beautiful as the stars seen up above at night. Shine like them because deep within my heart I know I can be beautiful"
"If by watching the stars can become shooting stars and the wishes from deep within would come true in an instant then my wish for you is to be yourself and be happy"
"In this world, we often see and face the cruel nature of things while our compassion emerges like the sun behind the dark clouds"
"One step at a time, I'll find my worth while knowing I can make it through this, crossing the ocean, climbing the mountain won't tire me"
"You are like a butterfly trapped on a cocoon, waiting to emerge out of it to fly and show your colors and beauty"
"You don't have to be perfect, you don't have to be special. Just be you and let everything unfold"
"Your strength is the feelings you carry from deep within, your light is the will to continue"
"Every step you take it leaves roses behind, within every action you show your light"
"Pain teaches us the greatest lessons on life, it can break you or can make you stronger"
"Sometimes others see what we don’t see in ourselves because of our insecurities"
“At times we will mess up, but will you let it define you or rise above it”
"There’s not a person you should be better than yourself"
"You display toughness, but I can feel pain inside of you. The world may have many mysteries, but I feel you could have more"
"Someday the stars may fall, meteors might impact the earth, but before it my time will come while I start to frequently knock on the door of destiny for my own call"
"Don’t fall, don’t stay down even if things fall apart. Deep inside wishes of overcoming all of this, staying strong even against the strongest of winds or if the sky falls"
"Your beauty is all around, it can’t be explained in words, I feel it in my soul, I see it with my own eyes each time"
"You are perfect with mistakes and flaws, the world will soon rotate in your favor"
"The night is made of dreams of escaping, opening the lock of this dark prison. The more I want it, the higher I want to fly…The higher I get the more freedom I will start to feel"
“Your kindness and strength are able to move mountains, and reach the most darkest of places as a light to guide the way"
"Believe in yourself, in the person you are because that’s the only way you can break his vicious cycle you created with your insecurities and fall outs"
"My faith is my prayer to go forward, even while in pain and suffering. Wishful thinking would be no negative things in life, but without it then positive things won’t come out"
"The bad moments don’t last, but the good moments last forever. I may have a mountain to climb, and my feet could hurt from walking, but I know in my heart I will always fight"
"I face my fear, embrace my feelings while turning the flame inside of me. I’ll be able to fight with every ounce of energy and strength without giving up"
If you ever feel sad or mad always look up to the sky and remember tomorrow will be a brand new day. There’s going to always be a light called hope in every turn.
You’ll always live inside of me
Through my eyes you’ll see the world
Your strength will become my strength
When I look to the sky I’ll smile knowing
I’m not alone…