Feels lost in life and lonely
I don’t really know what’s going on with me.. Broke up with my ex about 7 months ago at the lowest point of my life and I still haven’t recovered yet. All my friends have now become enemies for some reason and it feels like the world is becoming more cruel as every second passes by.
I don’t know what to do at this point, wish I could swap my life with someone who deserved it more than me.
THIS WORLD IS NOT FOR NICE PEOPLE!!
@greenLand4638
Certainly life is not fair. We don't chose the most important things in our lives and often have no control. It's important to be nice and forgiving yourself. Please be your best friend and like yourself despite low points.
healing looks different for everyone. it's ok if you haven't fully recovered from your breakup! be patient and kind to yourself. people come and go but they serve as a lesson to us, showing us that they weren't meant for us. your people will come sooner or later.
life is not fair at all and we have no control over most of the things in life. it's ok if we lose certain things/people but these losses could mean something better is in store for you.
@libramercury
I love this, well said:
"people come and go but they serve as a lesson to us,"
Sometimes we cling to people on our lives even though they are not meant for us. Being young means we learn through different people and relationships with them. It's not that we looking for that magic person who complements us. We are learning to interact and solve problems with people different from us. On one hand, the opposites attract, on the other hand it's hard to live close with people who are different.
I really hard to the all my friends have become enemies line - everyone either stopped being friends with me or I stopped being friends with them recently. And so now I'm super lonely.
I’m sorry, I understand. People drift sometimes peacefully sometimes chaotically and destructively but it all ends up the same with the feeling of loneliness. It’s really hard to see a way through but there are so many people out there. That have similar experiences and thoughts and interests so I’m sure it’ll work out and you’ll find other people to share life with
I agree i don't know why nice people have to suffer so much. Why they are the ones who are hurt.
@greenLand4638 I sometimes feel that the world is not fair. Maybe there are few things we can really control. Hope you can get better. It doesn't matter if you have not recovered. Take baby steps. Follow yourself.