Life hit an all time low
So about 2 months ago my wife decided she was done with our relationship we had been together for 5years married for 7 months(i know the marriage wasnt long but yeah) we were also best friends before dating we also have a son together and no she isnt keeping him from me ik that is a common thing that happens to split up families im currently unemployed looking for work my car took its last ride about a week ago now so im kind of stranded as i live way to far away from family I recently got a bit of money from financial aid refund from school and have been holding tight on it looking for a cheap a to b car on *** as thats all ill be able to afford iv been having alot of issues of my own as far as bad thoughts and feeling so unmotivated that it has affected me physically aswell for a short time i began talking to a women i knew from back when we were all back in school (btw im 24 so yeah keep that in mind with how i type this all out) and she recently told me my clinginess was to much for her she had never expressed it as a problem unitl she basically ghosted me so now im sitting in my home stressed about work and finding a job and the worst part my best friend has been missing for a week now whilst all of this has been going on and i feel so overwhelmed
@JingleSavage I am sorry to hear about everything you're going through right now. It sounds like you're dealing with multiple challenges, and it's understandable that you're feeling overwhelmed. Going through a separation is never easy, especially when there's a child involved.
Being unemployed and without a car can add a significant amount of stress to your situation. I hope you're able to find suitable employment soon, and I understand that finding a reliable and affordable car is a priority for you. It's good that you're actively searching for options and using resources to find a car that fits within your budget.
On top of everything, it's unfortunate that you've been feeling unmotivated and experiencing negative thoughts. Remember that it's important to reach out for support during challenging times. Consider talking to friends, family, or even seeking professional help to help you navigate these emotions and regain a sense of balance.
I'm really sorry to hear that your best friend has been missing for a week. That must be incredibly distressing. Have you reached out to authorities or mutual friends to see if they have any information about their whereabouts? It's important to exhaust all available resources to locate them.
Remember to take care of yourself during this difficult period. Focus on small steps forward and try not to let everything overwhelm you completely. Things may feel tough right now, but with time and perseverance, you will find a way through this challenging chapter.
