Adulting
Why is it sooo hard to be adult? Everything that comes with it is either super good or super bad. There is no in betweens and don’t get me started on relationships. They are the most stressful thing in the entire world. Someone can completely decide to act mean to you and it will determine how your day goes. It’s insane how much of us we put in people.
Sometimes I wonder if it’s better to be alone than go through the struggles of a relationship.
It’s sooo harddddd😭
@ilovequiet01
Hey!
I hear you!
The important thing is not to put our all into one person or depend on them to provide our happiness solely!
Adulting cones with alot of responsibility and also alot of freedom.
It's about blending the routine with the fun!
It's not all hearts and rainbows for sure, but relationships are worth it when you meet that right person who just brightens up your day and gives you the same energy back!
💕💕
@ilovequiet01
We are getting older
I definitely think becoming an adult is a struggle, I myself iust freshly entered the lines and lines of sudden responsibilities no adult will help with, because hol' and behold- you are now the adult!
As for relationships.. It takes time and growth and metting with another person on a semi-same level. Relationships will be hard and uncomfortable and getting by purely on love doesnt work as you have to actibely choose the person and choose to go trough the struggles with them - while also not get lost in the person or the struggles themselves.
It is easier said than done and overall it is hard to say what will help you specifically, but its definitely good to get a feel of the field so you know what you can and cannot take, what you want and don't want in your life, it will male sense once you find it and find your stances trough it.
@ilovequiet01
I agree adulting is hard indeed, maybe it's because we're literally trying to do everything at the same time. Like i wanna be an artist, a topper, a reader, a sportswoman at the same time at 2:00AM in the morning like what-😭😂
I also freshly entered the adult world and it's so scary. I'm realizing how different making a mistake at school and making a mistake at work is.
And people seem to be less friendly. I guess privileges of being a kid are officially gone now
I also freshly entered the adult world and it's so scary. I'm realizing how different making a mistake at school and making a mistake at work is.
And people seem to be less friendly. I guess privileges of being a kid are officially gone now