Help with self esteem and boundaries
I feel that we have to or need to at least tell ourselves we are worth it and that we can overcome this battle we're going through together. And now we need to build boundaries to protect ourselves and others.
Being optimistic for many aspect would be beneficial so work on believing in yourself. Have critical thinking when learning or changing something important. Yes many of us have felt used and unreasonable hurt. Over time it feel like it's getting worse. So if u had to ask that question I somehow think you are right.
There are many people who like to take,use,manipulate or in general benefit by making someone else worse. It's in our nature unfortunately so Yes we need to build boundaries and often monitor that type of immoral behavior. If let out of hand it actually can destroy lives. Some people can't change so pick you surrounding carefully and have different approach to strangers and friends. Most likely only u can protect yourself.
Just in case u get too cold over time. Hate is awful way to fuel your ambition. If you are doing good changes/choices it's easier to feel love, joy and happiness.
Love this posts because yes 💯 knowing your worth and valuing to enought to do what's right for you is so important. Boundaries ares so important and we deserve them to be respected but that only happens once we respect ourselves first.
@purpleCup7502 this resonates. I never really thought about the word "boundaries" and why it is important. I always thought of it as being a boundary against the rest of the world and the things that bother me. Glass half empty.
The way you are suggesting to look at the word "boundaries" is protection for myself. I like this way of looking at the word. It makes me think of it in a new light. Boundaries can be something positive and useful.
Thank you for sharing this post.😄
