Hi I’m here to vent & make some new friends
Hi friends im new here and Im starting to love this app.. Im just going to go on a tangent here BUT IM SO CONFUSED ON WTF IM SUPPOSE TO DO IN MY 20s. Im 23 and I feel like I got so many issues and traumas I have to heal from on top of figuring out what tf Im suppose to do with my life. Everyone I know are either successful in their careers & finance while the rest are living the same life or falling apart… Making friends is so hard because you’re more selective with who you want in your life and how much you guys get along. Its just not the same when you were younger. Am I suppose to be *** it up and partying later or party now & worry later ? Also I hate partying because Im allergic to people now and I get anxious going out. My social skills are declining and everyone sucks. Like what is the point in all this ?? I feed judged and anxious all the time😭 can’t do it for the plot cus im older and there are CONSEQUENCES. I give too many f*ks and I really should start making budget for it
@yngxa
i do agree. adult friendships are very challenging! i hope you make many connections here, though. welcome to Cups!
@yngxa
Hi!! Navigating through your 20s is really hard. Hope you are doing okay!
Hi:) I’m in the same situation. I’m 24 I live alone. I can’t stay at a job more than a few months because of how toxic the environment is and I don’t drink or party which is what everyone our age seems to do. I have the same hobbies as an old retired person. I have no clue what direction to go in life and most days I don’t speak to anyone at all. I’m very quiet and shy and making friends seems to be very hard for me. I’m hoping this is just like the awkward phase and soon I will blossom however it seems my whole life has been in the awkward phase… if you find out the answer on what we are suppose to be doing please let me know 😅
