Life crisis
My life is changing completely im 23. I had a surgery 3 weeks ago i lost my grandmother a week ago and now my first relationship of 3 years is also ending. I don’t know how to cope he is everything to me and i can’t live without him but he wants to leave
@Celia8
I’m so sorry you’re going through all of this at once. That’s a lot of pain to carry, and it makes sense that you feel overwhelmed. Losing someone you love, whether through loss or separation, is never easy especially when it feels like life is changing faster than you can keep up.
Right now, your heart is hurting, and it’s okay to grieve. It’s okay to feel lost, to not have all the answers, and to just take things moment by moment. You don’t have to be strong all the time just getting through the day is enough.
I know it feels like you can’t live without him, but I promise you, *you can.* You existed before him, and you will exist beyond this pain. Right now, your heart is just struggling to catch up with that truth. Healing won’t be instant, and that’s okay. But little by little, you’ll find yourself again.
Lean on the people who love you. Let yourself rest. Allow yourself to feel everything without guilt. And most importantly, remind yourself that this pain will not last forever. Life is shifting, but that doesn’t mean it’s over it means something new is ahead, even if you can’t see it yet. You are not alone in this. You will get through it. And one day, you’ll look back and see just how strong you really were.