Stressed and frustrates
i am frustrated and exhausted i live with my bf and his parents my bf has some health issues so he never feels all that well we are trying to make him better anf his dad works alot so i do most of the cleaning dishes sweaping vaccuming litter box trash dusting occasionally mopping i do me and my bfs laundry as well his mom is usually home too but she doesnt do much cleaning i understand she has depression and such but i wish i had more help my bf i understand he isnt doing well but his mom says shes trying to fo better but she barley helps still and i talk to my bf about my frustrations and such but i cant talk to his parenrs because it likely may result in people gettinf upset and *** off wether im frustrayes by the lack of cleaning help or something else my bf is amazing hes jsut hasnt been feeking very well but he listens and understands just not much we can do.
@aumy20
it sounds like you're in a really tough situation and carrying a lot on your shoulders. I hear your frustration and exhaustion, and it's totally understandable. Dealing with the household chores while everyone else is dealing with their own challenges, all while wanting to be supportive, is incredibly difficult.
It's awesome that you're communicating openly with your boyfriend about your feelings. Even though you can't directly address the situation with his parents, maybe there are other ways you can find some relief. Could you try delegating small tasks to your boyfriend (if he's well enough to of course), even something light like taking out the trash?