Feeling low not sure if this is the right place for me
does Anyone else have a husband that randomly gropes them and when you tell them to knock it off they tell you to f off disappear for hours then come back and tell you they’re never touching you again and into the next day just abruptly move to make it really obvious they won’t be near you. Smirk when suddenly your son doesn’t want you coming with them to one of his matches and just says guess we aren’t compatible anymore or is it just me. Also I’m 40 and he is 51 and I guess I would except him to act like an adult but he is worse than our teenagers. What do I do to make this right?
Leave his ass it isn't worth it you deserve to live the rest of your life feeling good about yourself not being made to feel lonely and victimized by a p.o.s pardon my french you deserve better God bless and prayers there will be someone else who loves you and touches you when you want to be touched and respects you trust it or either way even if you decide to stay single a while you'll thank yourself for all the little petty fights avoided by ejecting him from your life he can go make someone else miserable and see how they like it my ex told me noone would ever love me again I go on dates whenever I want thank you very much even w a daughter or in your case sons you are capable of having fun and a life without him or anyone and if you need him financially then I mean child support??? Or if your kids are grown then it's p easy to live on our own without some a-holes beer tab added on or whatever extra expense he brings to your life speaking from leaving my man just trying to send some advice and love stay strong and bless
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I'm so sorry you're experiencing this. Someone who gropes you without your consent and lashes out when you assert your boundary is abusing you. You have a right to feel respected, safe, and to advocate for yourself. Do you have a support system? A therapist? Ultimately, you would know best how to move forward in a way that is safe, healing, and just, but having a good support system in place really helps in my experience. i hope you find the support you need to get to a place that feels good and safe for you 🖤
