My sister is getting married i am not as excited as should be
I was always treated badly in my family especially by my sisters but now they are suddenly are friendly. My youngest sister is getting married and my mother hasn't stopped talking about it. My mother said my sister is her miracle baby and everyone has to help with the wedding financially. Meanwhile, my mother has never been there for me. Our relationship was only financially motivated. I remember when she called me a slut when I decided to move out. No one was ever genuine so why should I be there or be happy for them. Am I being selfish?
I don’t think you’re necessarily being selfish. You’re expressing your emotions. Try and spend a little time thinking about whether it’s your mom or your sister thats making you feel this way. I’m sure and I’d hope your sister would wish you to have a amazing wedding day so I think you need to see whether these emotions are directed at her or at your mom. If it’s your mom I’d say have a chat about your feelings and explain to her how what she says and does makes you feel. If it’s your sister maybe express to her why you don’t think it’s fair that others are paying for her wedding. Wishing you the best!❤️
