Need an ear
Anyone out there feeling anxious, jealous and losing confidence in themselves even though there’s no reason to be in their relationship? I feel so unworthy at times from my last relationships and I don’t want my own fears ruin my marriage.
@ladybattlehammer
Hey, I can relate to those feelings! Maybe try to think of whether there is something your spouse could do to make things easier for you? You do not include many details about what exactly you think might ruin the marriage and whether you tried to work on it already.
I have the opposite advice to the white knigjt enabler. Do acts of kindness for your man. Drop the battleaxe and be feminine for him for a night. I bet your jealousy and lack of worth will melt away. OR you can double down on the warrior psyche and perpetuate your shared misery. Your call.
But I don't know much. I'm just a crabby lion, look at me roar.