Yes and no. How others want me to do things? Often no, sometimes yes. How I want to do things or would prefer to? Often no, sometimes yes. It’s hard to get it ‘right’ when people disagree about what the right thing to do is. Often that means for me going with what others want more than what I want so I don’t face worse circumstances or ostracism. If I do make more of my own choice that’s independent I risk being excluded or alienated, but others outside of a group may understand or even support my decision making potentially. It’s a loss vs. gain type thing and often to avoid being political and to not go against the grain is easily the most sane choice. That can mean however that feelings are not as honest or I don’t feel like I’m being true to myself and others. It’s hard to ‘get it right’ with both scenarios.
No I definitely feel like I’m doing everything wrong. Like literally EVERYTHING
i don’t really think there’s a right way
Yeah me and it turns things are rough 🦋🦋
You trying? If so, you're doing it right Cory.
@JuystCory8 yes
I was mainly meaning in general. I notice as I look back at the life I've had and the choices I've made, I feel a lot of regret. I understand regret without action is history doomed to repeat itself. At the same time I really don't feel there's an example of a moment in my life where I can look at it and say that was my best or I couldn't have done better. Not morally those are consistent. If I see a homeless person I'm going to give them money, whether they truly are or not doesn't take away from the meaning. I just mean who I am for other people or even choices I make that affect other l people. I still have a problem fighting mirrors and I know I can't stand myself but I feel like I'm assessing it from a logical standpoint not just I hate myself type of way. If that makes sense. Idk
Nah, dude. Never.
But like. I've always heard that there's more than one way to skin a deer.
So. Society wants to push this idea. And I've had to break myself of it slowly. Politics. Religion. "This is the right way!" But they're all convinced they're right.
I've decided being right isn't all that important to me.
Doing it right? Nah. Doing it? Sure.
Sometimes we just don't know that everything is on the right track, so wish we stay hopeful❤️
@JustCory88 I do
