I feel lost...

@Norma21

I'm sorry he is not pulling his weight.

What right does he have to tell you to get a job if he himself cannot look after the kids.

You must remember you are a great mother and human being regardless of him.

And it's hard now, but maybe not having the ring , will show you, you've always deserved so much better 💚 

@Norma21
You have every right to feel that way! 🙁 That man is immature and egoistic and he doesn't deserve the support that YOU give him, yes, you might feel like youve wasted 10 years but thats okay cuz you still have any years ahead of you and the best thing you can do is focus on your kids and yourself.. its not gonna be easy but it'll sure be more like freedom once you get him out of your life. Anyhow, just know that you're a queen and you deserve the world <3 dont stop being a wonderful being and the world of your children, that mean doesnt deserve you!!

When someone gives you nothing but contradictions, you won’t be able to succeed. But you can change your goal. You do not need to succeed by his requirements. You can choose for yourself what it looks like to be happy and to succeed.

Women, you, me, others, don’t need to live our lives waiting for the approval of our partners. Take some time to think about what it looks like for you to feel happy with yourself and your life. If he is preventing that from happening, he is not good for you. If he doesn’t want to see you happy and fulfilled, he is not good for you.

When a partner won’t provide, they are not being the partner you deserve.

I’ve been divorced before, I know the feeling of wasted time, wasted effort, the grief of a relationship ending. It is hard and it feels heavy. But when you find yourself in a better place, you won’t look back at this nearly so often. You’ll be able to live in your life with enjoyment. And you will have learned a lot about what you want and need in a relationship. So, that your future can be better than it is now. ❤️