Long Distance Relationship

@Uncertain20

There is no way to know it. Just no way.

It is a lil bit more perplexing.

Some things to look out for or ask yourself..

Is he making the effort to arrange times to chat/talk or is just you?

Is he consistent and reliable?

Is he a good listener or do you have to keep repeating yourself?

Do you discuss feelings and have deep discussions?

Are there talks about the future? Meeting up?

Have you had a voice chat?

Do you feel comfortable being yourself?

@Uncertain20 trust is the way

I availability 24x7

See how he reacts during an argument; it is the only way, I guess, you can be sure if he really loves you or not.

If he's available, giving time and making efforts.. that's the only way

When he doesn't make u doubt about his love !

I think there’s no definite way to know, and that has nothing to do with long-distance relationships; it can happen in any kind of relationship. First of all, everyone has different love languages, but also, you never truly finish getting to know someone, and you can never fully know what’s inside another person’s mind.

A healthy relationship is built on trust and communication. That’s what relationships are about: giving your heart while trusting that special person won’t break it. But you can never have complete certainty, because there are couples who have been married for years, people who are romantic, attentive, and seemingly perfect together, and they can still end up separating (or not).

Nothing is guaranteed, and the future is uncertain. It’s like driving a car: you can follow every safety rule and do everything right, and still not be completely protected from having an accident.

So maybe instead of worrying too much about what could happen, we should focus on what’s in front of us now. If you trust the person you chose to share your life with, then maybe the risk is worth taking.

I know this might sound pessimistic, but I actually mean the opposite. Rather than living in fear of possibilities, we should enjoy what we have while it’s still with us. :)

@Uncertain20

I guess the guy who promises something and then acts as promised consistently is sincere about the relationship.  Because it is easy to say all the beautiful words from the distance but to fulfill / carry out / execute the promises in person is the real deal. 

Hope this helps, all the best ! 

@Uncertain20 Hi there 😎

I  loved reading your post. It reminded me so much of my own journey, and I wanted to share a little story with you.

I was divorced at 30. I thought I would never find anyone again. But then, by chance, I met someone on a completely non-dating app; it was actually a tech-related app. We connected over something super random, I think it was a printer issue. He somehow got my email, and we just kept talking. For more than a year, we only spoke online. No rush.

When we finally decided to meet, I wanted to feel safe, so we chose a country that was neither his nor mine, I mean, a neutral place. It was one of the best decisions I ever made. We kept doing long-distance for a while, visiting each other about four times a year. 10 years ago, we got married. And honestly? He turned out to be even better than I ever imagined. ❤️

So when dating online, my biggest tip is this: pay attention to the early signs of your conversations. The consistency, the respect, the way they make you feel. That tells you more than any profile ever will. Take care 🤗