Porn addict
I am porn addict, sometimes I stop, sometimes I keep doing it. With the stress I have from work and the masturbation habit my mind gets overloaded and I stop being able to manage my surrounding and I feel people don't like me because of my mood swings and the way I feel depressed. I am working on changing myself but looking for a buddy to help me. Feel free to reach me please if you could encourage me and I will do the same if you have the same problem
@Ahmedtalat
I'm sorry you are struggling.
This is brave of you to open up.
These habits by nature are healthy and natural and we are all inquisitive about exploring things.
The problem arises when they become unhealthy fixations and create unrealistic expectations of what an intimate relationship actually entails.
It creates loneliness and guilt.
And when the instant gratification.is not enough, it often leads to the wrong outlets.
It's important to know, there's nothing wrong with you.
You are not a bad person.
It could be useful, to cut it down day by day, gradually , until you get used to it and replace it with a healthy, physical outlet 💚🤗
Thank you :). I’ve started attending a support group and therapy, and I’m working on becoming a better person. It takes a lot of energy and puts a heavy load on my mind, which makes difficult or unpleasant tasks feel even harder and more stressful. Still, I’m trying, and I really appreciate your advice and encouragement.
@Ahmedtalat
A pleasure 💚
I'm dealing with the same problem myself. Sometimes I go weeks without it, other times I barely go hours without it... It makes me feel like I don't deserve any respect from anyone...
I'll try my best to support you!
Thank you :). I’ll do the same if you ever need support. I’ll stay active here, and I’m planning to stop this habit and manage these urges to build more self-discipline and become a better human being :).
@Boywithnone
You do deserve respect, one day at a time 💚
I’m facing the same exact issue , especially the mood swings I’m happy I found someone facing the same thing and really want to stop it and fight to fix himself.
I wish I can stop watching porn , yes maybe because lack of sex or it’s not allowed in our community until marriage but it really feels heavy on me especially when I speak with people like I’m always not on the mood to listen to their problem or doing my work in the best way
it a fun one gonna be werid but ask youself in the mirror daily ask yourself what your your famliy think, its a hard one, could you have a stable famliy with this, sometimes purpose is the best living for yourself while helping lift up assit even baisc human connection can make real impact in ones life, the issue is your tryign to quit something as strong with drawal and and feeling as herion or close enough and that i the first you have fight for your life as life it depended on it like if you dont fight now you dont let youself down you let those around for not every battle is ment to be seen but all wars are dangous battlefields that one wrong move your stepping on a land mind. the final question its a truth ball so many say they are willing to die for their family but how many are willing to do whatever it takes to change for their famliy, one day is okay its when its more than on day back to back looking in the mirror and the corny as *** phrase face the man in the mirror only you can