Pressured
Who are here are more pressured because of New Year? Getting old but not yet married, no children 😅
I'm more pressured with my friends asking that I should be married and they are suggesting this guy or those guy even not my type haha. I just want it to be my choice not through friends2x.
Online also is my option but I'm ashame to look haha and a fraid if it won't work.
Thank you in advance for your advices haha.
@Uncertain20
Hi dont worry, Take your time, you will find the right soul, If you wanna try online you can so As well .mAybe give it a try 😀
@emotionalconnect1209 take your time til age of 60 hahah
@Uncertain20
I can Understand your feelings, I am 30 and single, have been single for over 5 yrs now, so I get the feeling, But Maybe Destiny has planned someone Wonderful For us
@emotionalconnect1209 Still young and you're a guy, so less pressure maybe
@emotionalconnect1209
Hey hi. Just thought I'd reach out.
I agree , I guess all. IS in divine order. Do you get out much.... What's your weekly routine like?
@joyfulUs2825
wake up, working out, making breakfast, going for work, then come back at night,to cook dinner, eat and sleep
Thats what my regular day routine looks like 😅😂
@emotionalconnect1209
If you do not drive..... your best opportunity is in the commute. On public transportation or whilst walking. I met my very 1st love on a big yellow bus huni in great Britain. UK loooool. I wish you a lovely 😍🌹 day look around at all the beauty as you step anyway ok x
Totally get you ! I’m the same…entering my early 30s and single, everyone asking if I’m dating. I don’t and I do want a family but can’t force it. Not into online dating as I like to meet people in person. It’s either I like them and they don’t like me or they like me but is not my type or what I’m looking for. What can we do 😔😅
There is a lot of pressure I think unnecessarily on people to get married and have childrin in our culture. As someone who's been there and done that ...and knows how difficult it is, I say take your time and be sure of what you desire, and also be sure of who you are! and what your goals in life are besides just marriage and children .
Marriage is not easy. Neither is raising kids. Its Incredibly important who your partner is. And it can be a very difficult and miserable experience if you don't have the right partner.
I had 3 kids by the time I was 25. I was married because I felt I needed to be. I say spend your time and focus on loving yourself, truly knowing yourself,, and becoming more and more in touch with who you are spiritually,... Do the things that you love ! whether it's the job you have or hobbies, social activities you do, or sports or travel or music or art.. or flying kites, fishing or skydiving... . Whatever it is ...follow your passions and I truly believe that when you are happy with yourself, your vibration will attract the best possible partner.
@1BraveBunny wow what a good and inspiring advice, thank you so much. Happy New Year. 👍😊
So well explained and coming from someone experienced and mother of 3 kids, only reaffirms the fact that we need to love and find and know ourselves first and enjoy our own company and with friends. We need to be hopeful for love and companionship but not be miserable till we find it because we wont find the best match then due to vibes not matching. And kids are so much responbility, we have to be mentally, financially, physically ready before bringing them to this world. Kudos to you for doing it at a young age. I am sure it was not at all a cakewalk.
@calmClementine8 haha thanks
@calmClementine8 hahaha that's me when I was in early 30s but now that I'm in late 30s, gosh it's so pressuring, asking what I did in my younger years 😂 but yeah we don't have to rush things just for the sake of society pressure
@Uncertain20 no baby you don't ,and to each his own we all do things ian our own time ,and there is nothing wrong with that anyone that is pressuring you can't have your best interest at heart.yoi.eant to be sure that they actual add something to the relationship instead of taking ***. All the time and be sure there faults are ones you live with.
@Uncertain20
i feel the same way too. I mean I’m happy being single right now & just enjoying life (I’m 33) but yeah family always bring up why don’t I get a bf & start a family soon 😑 I want that but later on ?
@energeticCurrent9318 try to look coz I'm bit regret what I didn't look during my younger years.
❤️ Sending plenty of hugs your way.
@WeListenWeDontJudge Thanks so much
@Uncertain20 Its good to be single rather than getting married to a wrong person because of societal pressure.I am sure universe has planned something really good for you .stay blessed 🌸🌸
@comfortingSunshine23 That's I'm afraid of. But anyways, we'll looking forward for the best this year. Thanks so much
@Uncertain20
Dating is rough nowadays with everyones standards being raised so much due to technology.
Let me go ahead and speak for the men and say, we are heavily outnumbered online. For us its not even about finding the right one. But about finding literally 1 that actually is willing to talk. Like im sending 10 messages to recently online woman and get 0 replies. Was starting to think im ugly or boring(quiet the opposite!😉) but trust me they literally dont even click on your profile, what a pain. Its a treasure hunt to find just 1 woman that is actually willing to have a conversation to begin with. So if youre wondering about online, then go for it, cause we are waitingggggggggggggggggggggg😵💤🤣
especially the introvert men, like where else are we gonne date? start talking to random woman that are staring at me a lil too long at a bus stop?.....yeeeeeeeeeeeh💀......NOPE🤣🤣🤣 i think ill rather stay single🤣
@KasperTheGhosttt hahahahah I have no idea that some guy think like this as like women 😂😂. Looking for online dates are awkward but that maybe an easiest way esp for introverts 😂 but also a risk 🙁. Or I'l just also preparing myself to be just single for life if can find wrong guys online.
@Uncertain20
I guess we just do a bit of both offline and online and hope for the best 😉
@KasperTheGhosttt you're gone 😢
@KasperTheGhosttt can't message you
@KasperTheGhosttt people I think read way to much into first impressions for one thing.and people seem to be materialistic too.its ok to want a man with a decent job and a few prospects I get that .but I have been in a few of those positions myself and I would rather be dirt poor with the man that is loyal to me a d loves me,than to have a man with money that can't ever spend time with you or be half *** loyal.i have been there and all that cash didn't mean squat with no three to enjoy it with.true story
@Uncertain20
Bring a male friend with you for fam/friend dinners, shopping trips ; coffee afternoons etc occasionally o
@Uncertain20
Tell them to throw a p.a.r.t.y. bring all those mr's & mr's there
hahaha single party
@Uncertain20
Lol yeah you might even end up choosing a guy for real! 🤣🤣🤣
@joyfulUs2825 lol my.party is alot different now days less sirens and calls at 3am for ail money.
@philosophicalWatermelon6921
Lol , what was that bail money 😭😭😭
Well I guess that came with age looool
And is a great thing
At least you have great memories n stories to tell the grandchildren!!
Wow you could private message me with some anyway 😉
@Uncertain20 being married is the quickest way to end up back on 7cups.com lol
😆@zerosuitzero
@zerosuitzero hahahah just to shut the pressure up, but later on regret on a quick marriage haha and back on 7cups complaining hahahah
@zerosuitzero I'll second that my friend,throw in a chemical embalance and a few antidepressants and yep here we is folks
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