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User Profile: Uncertain20
Uncertain20 July 16th, 2024

Hello 30s!

I am 36 years old but I'm feeling like a late bloomer. A lot of regrets, hang-ups, not financially stable, no own family yet. What am I doing in the past 2 decades since I graduated? A lot of questions comes into my mind when I'll be alone. 

Now, I'm thinking starting an own family is good but will I be a good mother or wife inspite of my weaknesses and capacities? 

People in my place keep telling I have to have a boyfriend and be married so I can have an own family. I said to myself it's too late. 

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User Profile: lightSea5978
lightSea5978 October 8th, 2024

@Uncertain20 Hi. How are you? I hope you well. 

Actually my life same as yours. I did many mistakes and didn't appreciate the people who were around and try care about me. Now I am 35 and single. 

Over the years I have become very closed and cannot open up and trust anyone.

I can't give you advice on what to do to make everything better.

I can only say that you are not alone.

User Profile: EmpatheticStranger007
EmpatheticStranger007 October 8th, 2024

Where are you from?

User Profile: Arkab25
Arkab25 October 8th, 2024

Hey listen to yourself are you ready for marriage??? Then do whatever your heart say

User Profile: Joyfulhuman12
Joyfulhuman12 October 8th, 2024

Same here my friend ð§¡

User Profile: joyfulUs2825
joyfulUs2825 January 15th, 2025

@Uncertain20

In my personal life I don't do anything expected only that which is desired, desired by my own self 💖  its between me my creator & the universe 

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User Profile: Uncertain20
Uncertain20 OP January 15th, 2025

Hello, yes we leave it all to God but it's also said in the Bible, knock and you shall find haha. Anyways, thanks for always commenting on my post. Good to connect you.

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User Profile: Vueqq66
Vueqq66 January 16th, 2025

@Uncertain20

Hey, thank you for sharing your troubles. That was really brave of you. 

To reply to what you said, I don’t know if this will help but someone said something to me before that quotes from the Bible- to not worry about tomorrow but tomorrow is coming.

I’m a first year college student and the amount of older people I see is crazy. There’s an old man in my class with hair all  grey and still coming to school wanting to be a pilot. His presence is inspiring. 

It’s never too late to be greater than what you are now.