Uncertain
Hello 30s!
I am 36 years old but I'm feeling like a late bloomer. A lot of regrets, hang-ups, not financially stable, no own family yet. What am I doing in the past 2 decades since I graduated? A lot of questions comes into my mind when I'll be alone.
Now, I'm thinking starting an own family is good but will I be a good mother or wife inspite of my weaknesses and capacities?
People in my place keep telling I have to have a boyfriend and be married so I can have an own family. I said to myself it's too late.
@Uncertain20 Hi. How are you? I hope you well.
Actually my life same as yours. I did many mistakes and didn't appreciate the people who were around and try care about me. Now I am 35 and single.
Over the years I have become very closed and cannot open up and trust anyone.
I can't give you advice on what to do to make everything better.
I can only say that you are not alone.
Where are you from?
Hey listen to yourself are you ready for marriage??? Then do whatever your heart say
Same here my friend ð§¡
@Uncertain20
In my personal life I don't do anything expected only that which is desired, desired by my own self 💖 its between me my creator & the universe
@Uncertain20
Hey, thank you for sharing your troubles. That was really brave of you.
To reply to what you said, I don’t know if this will help but someone said something to me before that quotes from the Bible- to not worry about tomorrow but tomorrow is coming.
I’m a first year college student and the amount of older people I see is crazy. There’s an old man in my class with hair all grey and still coming to school wanting to be a pilot. His presence is inspiring.
It’s never too late to be greater than what you are now.