30 and lonely
Hi, Im turning 30 this year but I feels like im going nowhere. Relationship? Never had one. I never fall in love or attracted to anyone. i want it but it is hard when theres no one that you interested in. Career? Just start a new one last month and my supervisor is younger than me,and since its a new job im pretty much clueless. Make me felt more down seeing everyone around me is working hard while im sitting at my desk learning. Friends? I havent seen them in a long time. We didnt even message becouse everyone was so busy. And even when we did, we have nothing to talk about. My family? They are lovely and very dear to me,but thats just making it harder for me to really talk. I dont want to burden them.
I used to be so happy and determine, positive and outgoing but now im just so lonely and very introvert. The thought of talking to another person who i dont know made me sweats and anxious. I want to cry but I cant. I just...dont know where im going in this life anymore.
Is it just me, or does anyone else feels the same?
I was the same way. I never really dated but I was t a relationship. I’m 33 now and just met someone. I love him! But I never regret my singleness. I know it’s so hard to be single and it’s lonely sometimes! But I will say maybe start thinking of life goals and dreams you want to do for yourself? I think at the end of the day when you meet the right person (and you will)…I think the memories that you make for yourself stick and you do “fall in love with who you are” (not saying you don’t now). But I’m just encouraging you to keep being YOU! Because I really believe you have a desire for a relationship fir a reason and there is a right person out for you. It will be effortless when you meet them!
Wow i just read your reply to her. This is how I feel too. I want to be in a relationship with a good partner but loving my singleness, thats a good idea. It never bother you of your age. And I admire that. True about pursuing life goals. its feels real when its yours not other people.Im happy I came across this thread.