Affair
My husband had an emotional affair. We've been together 17 years, since I was 17. Hes all I've ever known and wanted. He said he isn't in contact with that person any more and was never sexual but he said he loved her in a way he has never loved me. I'm heart broken.
It must be very difficult for you to go through this difficult time. While I know nothing of what happened I do know that you are a unique and special person and that you are strong enough to get through this. I just want to say that you might be feeling so many things like anger, betrayal, hopelessness and utter grief, I wish you find a ray of hope and happiness through this time. If you maybe want to talk more about this please do ping me. I'll be happy to help any way I can. Just hold on, cuz in my experience things get better in time..
I can only imagine how much you are hurting. But you have to try to look at it from this point of view, he was totally honest ( as far as saying he loved her in a way he’s never loved you) I know you might get people who try to say he didn’t mean it or he’s just trying to hurt you etc no he’s being honest with you. In with doing so it’s now up to you to decide, if you want to continue your marriage to him. It’s really that simple. Regardless if you guys have kids etc YOUR feelings come before anything because YOU are the only one that has to deal with him nobody else.. you should feel somewhat good that he was honest it could have went on until you was in your late 40s he create another family, you know nothing about..then it would be too hard for you to move on.. if you decide to forgive him be prepared for anything else that might happen because he’s already expressed how he truly feels..
Well...........In my case I am alone and lookinfg for someone to come in my life......what you guys think of I am 40 male.....do you think i should go for having new life partner in this age or i should live my life as it is ??
