Heartbrake
First, sorry for my english is not perfect. I had a bad breakeup 8 months ago, he broke the ralationship of 4 years. I tought we would stay together forever. I loved him and still do like noone before. He was my best friend, my family. I tried my best to oveecome this. I kept my self busy, made a new friend and even dated another man for two months. Last week i found out that my ex is in love and that he is living the life he told me was boring to him. When we broke up he said that we were too different and wanted different things in life. Now he is doing with her all those things. It is difictul to put it in words but we had such a strong conection, we were lovers, best friends and a little familly, me, him and our dog. I feel so alone and with no hope for the future. I know we wont be together again, and i cant accept that. My heart cant. Im in my 40es, so is he. I would like to hear from someone who had the similar experience.
As hard as it is to accept it right now you have to. I was engaged and Ready to start a family and things went south for me. It took me a couple of years and I don’t know how many women in between to try and make myself feel better to escape from the pain. It wasn’t until I realized my self worth and then found someone who I am married to now and have 3 kids with. You will be ok just have hope and try love have the courage
M so sorry to know that u faced this much....But dear he wasn't in true love that's why he left and he was dating that girl from much time.....so he was already lost interest in u and so please don't blame yourself for anything... you're true lover and honest person but he wasn't able to see your worth and please don't lose everything happens for something good ... please try to focus on yourself and improve yourself more...one day true lover will come in your life...till then don't date anyone to forget him just be nice and real....be blessed dear ❤️
I know what you are going through. I am fighting the same fight. It is very sore. I hope that time will heal you and that you will find happiness again.
I can feel the pain in your words. I have been in your shoes…. Actually too many times. In my40’s now, and I have fallen through all the cracks and no one has ever wanted to stay with me long enough to get married, or else they just never wanted to anyway.
it’s so difficult to see someone move on, and give the life they said they did not want to give you.
i can empathize. I also want to give you some advice that has helped me: just don’t look. ignore what they are up to. Delete them from your contacts and move forward from where you are now. Watching them from a distance is just painful, so don’t look.
i hope this can help you also, as it has helped me. And I hope your heart can heal quickly! We are all in this together 🤗