Is my husband cheating me wirh live-in helper
Although they don’t have a relationship yet, but I have noticed my helper starting in my direction when my husband is also next to me. For sure my husband has a crush on her. Should I throw my live-in helper out? My husband is 40, I am 30 with an 8 yr old kid. Helper is 30, unmarried and pretty. Looks better than me.
Have you discussed it with him?
Hello, It is best you have a talk with your husband. If you do not feel comfortable with your helper, you and your husband should talk about. Good luck.
@understanding85
Have you tried to open a conversation around your worries with your husband? He is the only one that you will get the answers you need from.
@understanding85
us women are taught in recent culture to always check ourselves, uncertainty is trending.
Your a grown woman. with great instincts. What does your heart say? Is the live-ins care taking relationship with your son more important than the behavior between your employee and your husband?
This is not for me to answer, and is a little harsh, either way there will be loss and consequences. But, sadly, a decision must be made, to neglect the short painful repercussion from choosing what is most important to you, will be neglecting yourself.
See, To shuffle your valid feelings to the side in order to avoid conflict or slight discomfort....will have longer much more negative consequences on your self-worth, the way you continue to manage your home, the way you control your most intimate and private environment.
I learned PICNIC from my uncle. Positive Imeediate Certain, or Negative Immediate & Certain.
not always easy, but you CHOSE to be a strong woman, CHOSE the man to marry, CHOSE to bring a son into this world. Trust your instincts, lady, buck up, thats YOUR home, and what your CHOSE now, either way, will be part of your growing family
@understanding85
