Life sucks too
I’ve been single for ten years. Please don’t tell me to wait for the right one. It’s been ten sodding years. Life is lonely without a partner. It’s one thing I crave all my life. How can the 7 billion people out there come and take a notice of me? 😣
But do you let yourself be noticed though?
Like how? I’ve been on dating apps for six years and nothing. They don’t want commitment or don’t like me back when I like them or vice versa. I’ve tried taking part in big group activities but there’s always 80% single women and only 20% guys. How else can I let myself be noticed?
I see... You do try hard. But what if you try too hard? Try befriending people first, don't focus on trying to find a romantic partner since the beginning. Focus on people as people, not as a potential girlfriend or boyfriend.
@ThePomergranate Well, if you feel strongly about this dear, why don't you put yourself out there and start dating? Be active. Talk. Communicate. I will say, if Your not in a healthy mental space, wait until you are ready. Other than that, start putting yourself out there. I hope this helps✨
I understand it’s not only about how u try but also about luck on finding a partner. Would you share more details of your experiences? Like how’re the guys u met via app?