Lonely Wife Here...
Hi! I need someone to talk to, or a friend. I’m not looking for a romantic relationship. I’m a wife, no kids. I love my husband, but things could be a lot better. I can’t talk to him because it creates arguments. I’ve tried the I feel, and we statements and it’s not working. At this point I’m disgusted just being around him and I hate myself for it. I feel like he’s this big kid, and I’m the responsible adult. Then other times, I feel like he is an old man, and I’m younger at heart. I’m 36 and he is 38. I feel like I’m stuck in my marriage. I don’t want a divorce, I just want things to get better but I don’t think they won’t. At this point... I’m just miserable and conflicted. He’s a good guy, I know the grass isn’t always greener on the other side. I just need someone to talk to. I’m weird but I prefer talking to men because I connect/ open up better. I just need someone who wants to listen and Give advice and isn’t sensitive to open minded, nothing off limits when it comes to talking kind of women. I curse like a sailor sometimes, and don’t have a filter most times. Thanks.
Hi Disney. We can talk like a brother and a sister
That would be good :)
Hello @DisneyFanatic1984. First of all, I hope you've found someone to talk to, and that you're getting some kind of emotional relief from using this website.
I know you said you prefer talking to men, but if you don't mind talking to another woman, I think we would be able to understand each other. Your situation sounds a lot like mine. I am 37, and I've been with my partner for 6 years. He is a good man and I love him, but the longer I stay in this relationship, the more desperate I feel. He hasn't given me the marriage or children he promised me in the beginning. He either acts like a baby or like an old grandpa depending on his mood, and most of the time, he refuses to talk to me about anything of importance. I feel alone most of the time. The entire situation is complicated, and it's a catch-22. If I leave him, I'll have to start my life over again from scratch. If I stay, and he refuses to see the problems he brings to the relationship, then I'll continue to feel lost and alone. I honestly don't know what to do, and I know that I'm not getting any younger.
Please know that you aren't alone. I'm here if you need someone to talk to.
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