Lost and Hurt
Been with a man for 8 years he’s cheated almost 7 of those almost had 3 kids on me. He has had a family member living with us almost the entire relationship. I’m tired and mentally drained he knows this. I lost my mom in December I’m alone despite having sisters then trying to help my kids cope with the pain and trauma of losing their grandmother. We have no support and I finally told my boyfriend ur was time for his family to leave and for that he dumped me I feel used and even more stupid. I can barely function and don’t know what to do anymore.
@findingme83
You did nothing wrong by asking to be treated right. The fault lies in him, and his dishonorable actions show what he is made of. Consider that you now have room in your life for better things and better people.
Thank you for that I have to figure out how to reprogram my mind from accepting blame for my feelings
My condolences for the loss of your mother. I'm really sorry for the pain you're going through. You will need time to heal and to get over the breakup but it sounds like you're really better off without him. You just need to get your life together and be strong for yourself and your kids. You will get through this. It won't be easy but you will. You can do it. I was divorced after 19 years and two kids with a narcissist cheater. My life is hard but I'm much better on my own than with him. You will find peace. Just focus on taking care of yourself so you can take care of your kids. I wish you all the best.
Thank you and I will do that n take it one day at a time you are strong yourself and I’m imagining it couldn’t have been easy for you.
