My parents fight everyday
Hello everyone
Sorry for not sharing that much in 7 cubs sometimes i really feel lazy to do anything.
I'm not sure how to start this subject i will say whatever comes to mind...i had a parents that argue with eachother everyday...there is always yelling and cursing happen between them and it can happen for the silliest reason.
My father is not necessary abusive person but he is short tempered and careless...he doesn't have the sense of responsibility and doesn't care about his children most of the times..he can be cold and reject anything we ask him to do.
And he doesn't like pretty much everyone type of peson he rarely take us to visit my relatives and cousins...and when we ask him to go he simply say no.
My mother is very caring and sweet but a little bit hot-headed
And sometimes she can be provocative and stubborn person.
Always worry too much and complain about anything and she always want things to go her way.
Because of their personality and behaviour they don't get a long with eachother and always get into an argument
My father gets mad easily and my mother loving to push his buttons they don't communicate well.
Same scenario everyday..my mother would ask a question and my father immediately get mad then my mother doesn't stop and continue to push him until he leaves...just 2 minutes ago they fought and i had to go outside in the cold to stay away from them.
i woke up 1 am at them fighting i even diagnosed with some kind of insomnia Because i can't sleep with them fighting in the other room...sometimes i think they were forced to be married because there is rarely love between them.
And that's all i had to say about this issue.
God bless you 🙏
That sucks. I'm sorry you're dealing with this. My parents are divorced, but before that they argued all the time too. Did you tell them that they're disturbing you and how it makes you sad?
I told my mother numerous times don't fight with my father...
It's just no use they don't listen to me.
Aww, I'm sorry 😔 I don't know what you can do. Maybe you could talk to a therapist and see what they suggest.
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@passionateNorth2259 .... Marriage counseling ... Did they try that ?
We don't have that where I'm living + they will laugh at me if i mentioned something like that to them
In other my parents are very different from where you came from
Different mentality and personality
@passionateNorth2259 I think we are neighbors ..... So I know what you are saying .... And your situation is really very messed up that's sad .... Parents here never think about kids mental health when they argue ... Hope they find peace and happiness in eachother
@passionateNorth2259 I'll pray for you ... Take care
Thanks but Where are you from ?
@passionateNorth2259 south asia
That's really sad and it must suck for you ! I really hope that they try to go for marriage counseling and try to solve their disputes in a more better way :(
I think that is love between them
@Mustfir this is disturbing ... We shouldn't normalize such behaviour....