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User Profile: understandingshaggy
understandingshaggy March 10th, 2022

I was in a relationship for 16 years with a man who was incapable of showing me the love and desire I needed to have a fulfilling relationship.im trying the OLD thing for the first time and was seeing a guy periodically for the last 3 months. It would seem he has ghosted me and I really don't know how to move on and start anew again.

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User Profile: Lifeonmars787
Lifeonmars787 March 10th, 2022

Hi, I understand how you feel and I'm sorry this happened to you. In these cases, waiting for closure only prolongs the healing process and makes you feel even worse. A person who ghosts you does not deserve your vulnerability but your silence. Unfortunately, this is a person unable to stand up to you, a person unable to take responsibility for themselves. And I guess that's not the kind of man you want to be with. Know that you haven't done anything to deserve this, so keep looking for people to hang out with. The right time will come for you too. Take care.


User Profile: shyLemon880
shyLemon880 March 11th, 2022

Hii. I'm sorry you had to go through this. If a man is ghosting you, he's not the one for you. If he's not man enough to handle a relationship or even a decent breakup, then he doesn't deserve you. I know it hurts like hell but it will get better. Keep yourself busy and pamper yourself. It will pass. Take care of you until you find someone worthy of your affection. All the best.