New to the platform

Hello everyone im 35 n just looking here to maybe catch some advice even tho i kno my choices are my own. 

Long story short im really dealing with a number of things that are bothering me, but the one thats kinda got me is not knowing what to do between giving my daughter what i didnt have(2 parent home) n making me her moms relationship really work and being with a woman that i have been wanting to really be with that i dont see myself leaving alone.

I know the logical thing to do is make it work at least for my daughter sake but im actually listening to feelings an not just doing what is wanted of me.