Sexually helpless
I feel like I have lost control of my sexual life thou I don't really think I am suffering from compulsive sexual behaviours. I stay for sometime without sex.
My problem is that I have never loved or been in a meaningful relationship. I find myself unable to resist having sex with multiple partners, despite understanding the risks associated with it.
I want to love.
I want to connect with one woman.
I want to be able to resist multiple sexual partners.
I want to change.
Do you guys know an online resource that can help me to transform?
I don’t have any advice or resources but I wanted to offer support and let you know that you aren’t alone. My ex-husband had a similar problem. Although I do think he loved me, it wasn’t in a way that he could be faithful to me.
After our marriage ended we were able to become friends. Good friends. I consider him my family. It allowed him to be more honest and open with me. I found out several times he’d sleep with several people in one day. They say when you hit rock bottom things usually change, but he even got caught in an undercover scheme trying to pay for sex. His mug shot was on the internet. Every time he breaks someone’s heart, he goes through this really sad point. He knows his actions makes his life worse, not better. He’s at the mercy of these urges and feelings. He has a wife and kids now, but he’s the same.
I wish I had resources to help you. He didn’t want to get help so it wasn’t something that I looked into. I wanted to share my story so that you would know that you aren’t alone in this struggle and that I think you are very brave to seek help.