Sick of having to pretend
Aren't you tired of having to be nice to people, only being able to vent when nobody is around you or you are in a place where nobody matters?
I really am, it hurts to keep it all in, I just wish I could act the way I want to without risking my life and health...
@tidySailboat7966
Hi sailboat - Glad to have onboard 7Cup - you can vent here at sharing circle!
There are always other people talking, I just don't get a chance to say a word😔
@tidySailboat7966, I feel the same way. It's like even the second you try to be yourself, people judge you and then you're rejected but even when you do try to act like someone else, then like, they still reject you. So confusing and frustrating, ya know?
Not really my situation, because my goal is not to fit I, rather just not to get into conflicts, and, well, when I'm pretending, it works. Unless they already see me as a threat...
@tidySailboat7966, Oh okay. I see what you're saying now.
@LovelyWisher07
I hope it is not like that for you in Sharing circle (there are diff. rooms!). People shall not condemn there.
@Helgafy Sometimes it is unfortunately.
Funny thing is kids are allowed to be pure and elders have made it to the age that they can be as blunt as they want but ages in the middle gotta play the part