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Sick of having to pretend

User Profile: tidySailboat7966
tidySailboat7966 June 16th, 2022

Aren't you tired of having to be nice to people, only being able to vent when nobody is around you or you are in a place where nobody matters?

I really am, it hurts to keep it all in, I just wish I could act the way I want to without risking my life and health...

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User Profile: Helgafy
Helgafy June 16th, 2022

@tidySailboat7966

Hi sailboat - Glad to have onboard 7Cup - you can vent here at sharing circle!

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User Profile: tidySailboat7966
tidySailboat7966 OP June 16th, 2022

There are always other people talking, I just don't get a chance to say a word😔

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User Profile: Helgafy
Helgafy June 17th, 2022

@tidySailboat7966

There is a queue and you write * to get in the queue (if you're 18 or above). Sometimes it is a little bit not organized, other times better.

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User Profile: tidySailboat7966
tidySailboat7966 OP June 17th, 2022

I don't wanna wait(

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User Profile: LovelyWisher07
LovelyWisher07 June 16th, 2022

@tidySailboat7966, I feel the same way. It's like even the second you try to be yourself, people judge you and then you're rejected but even when you do try to act like someone else, then like, they still reject you. So confusing and frustrating, ya know?

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User Profile: tidySailboat7966
tidySailboat7966 OP June 16th, 2022

Not really my situation, because my goal is not to fit I, rather just not to get into conflicts, and, well, when I'm pretending, it works. Unless they already see me as a threat...

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User Profile: LovelyWisher07
LovelyWisher07 June 16th, 2022

@tidySailboat7966, Oh okay. I see what you're saying now.

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User Profile: Helgafy
Helgafy June 17th, 2022

@LovelyWisher07

I hope it is not like that for you in Sharing circle (there are diff. rooms!). People shall not condemn there.

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User Profile: LovelyWisher07
LovelyWisher07 June 22nd, 2022

@Helgafy Sometimes it is unfortunately.

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User Profile: Brainmaze
Brainmaze June 22nd, 2022

Funny thing is kids are allowed to be pure and elders have made it to the age that they can be as blunt as they want but ages in the middle gotta play the part