Some positive help
I really just want some help so that my 11 year marriage dont go down the drain. My husband and I have children but we are going thru it he text me monday while I'm on a trip to tell me he dont want to be together anymore because I have anger management problems then I find out he talking to a whole another woman in south America. So yea im just try to have a healthy relationship with him but I also want to keep our marriage vowels alive . We have been poor and homeless together just dont know where to begin my journey or self growth .
I gotta fight for my marriage
@thoughtfulPine8534
Hi! It sounds like you are going through a rough time, that must have been hard to hear this in a text message.
Have you both been able to talk about your anger problems together? It sounds like maybe that isn't the only reason, or maybe it is the reason and he has been talking to others as a way to escape or distract himself??
Marriages are a lot of work. Are you able to do some counselling together? He might be feeling like he just wants to escape/cutoff but counselling can still be helpful, since you have children you will always have some sort of relationship, and be family, no matter what.
How are you doing now? Big hug.
