Hi. While everyone else indulges the attention seeker author of the barrage of posts from earlier, I feel as though posts like yours and mine are getting lost in the drama so I wanted to take some time to respond to you.
I know the feeling you’re feeling very intimately. My self harm also brings me a lot of guilt and shame. I wish I could say something to make you feel better but all I have to offer is my support and solidarity for what you’re going through.
@ivorySpring8863 Thank you for your solidarity and support. I'm here if you want to talk. Maybe we can help eachother somehow.
Likewise. If you need someone to talk to or just to listen, I’m here for you. Thank you for your support, as well.
@ivorySpring8863 Thanks for your support of this member.
Thanks for your support.
@ivorySpring8863 Thanks for sharing your thoughts with us.
I really enjoyed reading this.
Thanks for showing your support of this member.
You have a very supportive heart, just wanted to let you know this.
@Goodwitch0115
Hey, I've dealt with self-harm ever since I was 13 and I can tell you about the guilt. Wearing long-sleeved clothes, hiding them and playing nice for other people. I know I was ashamed. I know I felt guilty, so so guilty when my people finally found out. It was a disaster.
But hey, I'm here now, alive, without them. You know, there are still moments when I feel like I should do it all over again. I do. It's so so hard.
I'm here if you want to talk. I'm here to listen to you because I understand. Believe me, I've still got me scars. And I hope you can find what I did back then. I hope you can see why you're doing it and how you can get out of it.
Feel free to reach out to me, whenever.
@Goodwitch0115 So sorry your struggling right now.
I truly am.
I hope things get better for you soon.
Maybe try talking to a trained listener here at 7cups.
They can offer emotional support and help.
Some, even struggled with Trigger Warning: self-harm.
So they know what that is like.
Here is the link: https://www.7Cups.com/BrowseListeners/
I hope this helps.
@Happy900 I have tried the listeners 2 actually, and the first one was really mean and the second one didnt act like he cared. and then logged off mid conversation.
@Goodwitch0115 I am so sorry that happened to you.
If this happens again you can let Evelyne Rose know this.
They are the Admi for listener quality here at 7cups.
There link is :7cups.com/@EvelyneRose
Make sure you write down the listeners name on a peace of paper.
Also you can file a listener-member report.
When you do, you should provide a screen shot, of what happened, so they know.
Also at the end of every chat, you can rate the listener and provide feed back.
I hope this is helpful.
I am tired of feeling guilty for wishing my relationship with my father was different than it is.
@wildnwitchy I understand how you feel I feel the same way about my aunt and uncle. I isolate from them because I SH and they just understand.