Where to go from here?

My husband just recently came out as transgender. We have decided to divorce. The kids are fine with everything and I want to be as supportive as I can as they go through this process. I’m terrified everyone already thinks I’m a horrible person for wanting the divorce and they all think I’m just saying I support them. I see everyone whispering and I can’t help how badly it makes me feel. I truly do support this change.