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User Profile: scarlet9999
scarlet9999 September 24th, 2021

Hey everyone. I'm M and looking for support or more like validation. Year before everything was fine and I couldn't care less about others. But now I feel the need of approval even from strangers adding to the loneliness. My friends judge me idk why, I broke up with my boyfriend. So I'm lonely for real and looking for some help with self doubts and loneliness.

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User Profile: aquaPlum3706
aquaPlum3706 September 24th, 2021

Hello M.

I will give you my humble opinion and I hope it helps.

First we need to understand our own selves as much as possible.

Perhaps if we have a strong knowledge about our virtues, we will need less validation from others.

If we achieve a good level of self knowing we can manage the outside world better.


How do we achieve better knowledge of our selves?

Time alone, thinking, absolute honesty. Hopefully, some times there are caring listeners as well...