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User Profile: emotionalBanana3136
emotionalBanana3136 April 14th, 2022

Hello. I just joined 7 cups and it's my first day here. I am having severe relationship breakdown and feeling resentment towards my fiance for multiple reasons. I'm 35 and have been divorced twice so naturally I feel like I'm always the problem and I don't know what to do to fix it. I tried approaching my fiance with couples counseling and he flat out said no. So I'm reaching out for myself

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User Profile: limegreenMaple1355
limegreenMaple1355 April 19th, 2022

@emotionalBanana3136

Hi There!

I'm sorry you are going through that- reaching out will only benefit you positively!

User Profile: YearsFromNow74
YearsFromNow74 April 19th, 2022

Hi,

Sometimes people don't see the problem the same way you do. When you can't work together as partners, it's frustrating. You can't fix something if you can't see that it's broken. I think you're doing the best you can in reaching out. Maybe there's a different way to communicate to get through to him if you really want to keep working on it.

User Profile: Caringmama2022
Caringmama2022 April 19th, 2022

Hey there welcome to 7 cups of tea we are all so glad that you have come. We are all here to listen and hope we can help you fell a little better.