Check In 50+ Community March 1 - 3, 2024 All About Relationships ✨✨✨✨
Hello Beautiful 50+ Cupsers!! ✨✨✨✨
I hope this forum post finds you well and looking forward to the weekend!
In life we have many relationships with friends and family. How you show appreciation and love varies person to person. How you like to be appreciated matters as well. In life you find your peeps who you enjoy whether it shared hobbies or values or same age or community or family or someone you love romantically. Never under estimate the value as a friend.
Tell us about you and what is important to by ways of relationships. Browse the questions answer those that speak to you and that you are comfortable with. No pressure only answer the questions preferred. ✨✨✨✨✨✨
@SunShineAlwaysGrateful
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- Usually, no.
I don't have energy for the other questions...maybe later. Just got home, & I never get enough f@&$^g sleep.
So sorry hope you get to catch up on 💤💤💤💤 over the weekend.
Okay, I am temporarily awake...
2. No. 2A. Romance would be nice but it's not feasible given my age, conditions & my being a strange bird.
That is informative enough, I hope.
@slowdecline48
Never say never and age is but a number. I always say never underestimate the value of friendship. Thank you for sharing and you are a spring chicken 🐔 just saying lol 😂
@slowdecline48 I think what sunny meant is your a spring dinosaur😁😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@slowdecline48 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@slowdecline48
It is just a saying indeed. To motivate and express how each age has its own uniqueness and challenges in a positive spin as it were.
As I age I am grateful for each year I attain as many are denied the privilege.
No disrespect intended. It was well meaning I can assure you.
You have wisdom in your years and talents that many enjoy and appreciate. You do have lot to offer. We all enjoy you in the forums. 😎😎😎
@SunShineAlwaysGrateful don't want to brag, but yes I'm the greatest friend anyone could ever wish for 😁😁 I have never dated, and never will. (Unless I find a rich cute cowboy😍) I'm definitely a introvert. And the relationships I value the most is my wonder carers and health professional s. The sweet elder people here at the care home (even though I keep myself mostly to myself) and especially everyone here at cups ❤❤ it's the only place I get to socialise, I've got so mannnyyyy wonderful friends here ❤ it makes me feel happy and accepted. Gives sunny a giant tiny hug ❤❤ I love you ❤
I still say you should try out one of the other care home inmates...if they're all so sweet & kind, how can you go wrong? Besides you have little to fear from those old guys, right? I mean none of them would probably want anything physical anyway: they're too tired for any action. The most your b/f would ever do is cuddle until he falls asleep & starts drooling on your shoulder...
@slowdecline48 drueling on my shoulder🤔🤔🤔🤔 nah! I think I'll pass on that one😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I'm happy being single, ❤❤ it's just something I wouldn't ever want to do
@Tinywhisper11
Everyone that is in your sphere is very happy to be there. You are an incredible friend and cheerleader. You are a beautiful spirit and we see you light shine throughout the forums.
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@SunShineAlwaysGrateful awww your so sweet ❤❤ I love you ❤
- I do not feel very well connected to other right now.
- Yes, been married almost 29 years. It is not feeling healthy and I just don’t know how to save it.
- ? Not sure
- My family
- A good friend is someone that 24/7 will be there for them the same as family.
- I used to
- i show love by letting all know that my heart always has a place for them and love is not just touch, but trust, lending a hand, understanding, and treat them as I would want to be treated back.
- i really hate feeling this way, but sometimes it would be nice if I mattered too.
@justneedafriend28
I do not feel very well connected to other right now.
So sorry to hear this 🤗. I am so glad you are here at 7cups.
Yes, been married almost 29 years. It is not feeling healthy and I just don’t know how to save it.
Marriage takes work and communication for sure. I have been married 25 years and when I feel out of sorts I suggest we go do something fun together. We also do talks every week over coffee as a check in to see how each other are coping and how we are feeling. I am terrible if not for these talks I probably would not say how I am feeling. I hope you both find away through this.
My family is such blessing! Enjoy them treasure re them and spend time with them.
A good friend is someone that 24/7 will be there for them the same as family.
I love this and agree 👍.
i show love by letting all know that my heart always has a place for them and love is not just touch, but trust, lending a hand, understanding, and treat them as I would want to be treated back.
This is perfection.
i really hate feeling this way, but sometimes it would be nice if I mattered too.
Please reach out if you wish to chat 💬. Soo glad you found cups. Thank you for sharing.
@justneedafriend28
Sending you a bear 🐻 hug across the miles to you. 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗
1. No, I am a little cold as person
2. I don't have romantic relationship and I don't want it because I always feel like the person is not sincere with me when he gives affection.
3. I am 100% introverted.
4. Relationship with my family because the atmosphere is very kind and they surely love me.
5. A good friend would be my confident, be able to understand when I need space and would care of me. And also don't be hypocrite...
6. No, surely not. I am too cold. I can easily understand other's feelings but I can't express my compassion or my interest.
7. I generally take care of others without seeming to do it.
8. I would prefer when people take care of me, even without talking to me ( but just doing little things like waiting for me when I do my laces or letting a place for me in the side while walking ). But I feel embarrassed when someone says he loves me.
I feel like I answered all the questions wrong... I am not antisocial, I just have fear of judgment and social phobia then I prefer moving away from people so as not to get hurt.
Do you consider yourself a good friend?
Yesssssssss, I consider myself a veryyyyyyy good friend.
I had a very close friend, we both were sooo caring, understanding, friendly, stupid and
silly of course. Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhh I'm friendly kind of a nature. 😎
