Need some help with feelings

My better half is a recovering alcolholic and spent the last several months very sick due to drinking.  for several years.  I have had to endure his anger and depression which led to his drinking.  Don't get me wrong I love him very much but I have had feelings lately that bother me.  I do EVERYTHING in and around the house, work full time, pay bills, mow lawn, housework, cook, shop, literally everything.  I know since he was in the hospital and sick for well over a month he could not help but now he can pitch in.  For years due to being drunk daily, his has been NO help, but lately all I think about is this issue.  He has turned things around, health is improving and he is sober now for almost 3 months.  I am proud of him.  I guess I feel bad feeling this way.  I seems to not have a minute break.  I am still doing all the work and he has not worked since Sept.  I bring up him trying to help a bit, like empty dishwasher, change his own sheets, or help do something, but its not helping him to do anything.  What do you suggest???