In love and heart broken
I'm in love with a guy who has be avoiding me for almost 4mths. He finally confessed to me that he didn't tell me that he was married before but was divorced for 4 years...I forgave him and understood because he's from another country but has been here in the US. Where he's from divorces are frowned upon and I told in the US. Believe people should be happy and if that person didn't you should move on with your life. OK so now I accepted it we had a conversation he tells me after I told him I loved him and sent him love songs and blah blah blah... He said he would call me to further discuss things which never happened. Now my anxiety is through the roof I'm like why did I say anything to this man!! I should kept quiet and let things play out but I heard him day I Love you to me!! I'm sad. Anxiety is up.
@agreeableBirch9864
Maybe he feels divorce is a bigger thing as well ....and life long beliefs are hard to change even if it is a cultural thing...... maybe he was surprised at you feeling divorce was simple etc...
perhaps he avoided telling you because he was ready to use that as an out card assuming everyone feels similar about divorce. 4 months is a long time to think about things............ and my guess is he has moved on and perhaps you should too...
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