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Alcoholic relapsed

User Profile: lostBox8095
lostBox8095 March 22nd, 2022

My mum was sober for 5 months, but just yesterday she bought alcohol and hid it again. She's a homemaker but for the past 10 years had not been one, just drinking everyday. Our financial situation is worsening. What do I do?

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User Profile: AoDing
AoDing March 23rd, 2022

@lostBox8095 I am very sorry to hear that. There are somethings that you can do to improve this situation. To have an alcoholic person around you is awful especially he or she is one of your closed ones. But especially at this moment, you need to be more committed to do something even if it might be opposed to that person's own willingness. Because alcohol can neither make people feel better or released, it only makes people depraved. If you want to solve the problem peacefully, you hold go find someone that you mom would listen to and follows the order, and then ask him or her to force your mom to quit alcohol. If you want to solve it directly, you need to confront with your mother which might makes your relationship worsen but not the situation. I don't mean to let you beguile or menace her, yourself need to force her to quit alcohol, because you can make direct influence to your mother. I know that my suggestions are awful even valueless, but I just want to try my best to help you because I don't know what I will be like if I am in the same situation with you. I give you my best regard and truly wish you can solve this problem.