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NEW - Addiction Support Automated Taglist
by tommy
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2 hours ago
...See more Welcome to the NEW Addiction Support Taglist This thread is an auto-updating list. The list is regularly updated by forum leaders and can be found below. Having issues? Reply below and someone will help you! Why should I join the taglist? ✔ Never miss out on sub-community check-ins, discussions or events ✔ Get tagged and notified by community leaders whenever a new relevant thread has been posted ✔ Become a more active member of the community. What do I need to do? ✅ To add yourself to this taglist, press the Post to Thread button below and write the exact words Please add me. ❌ To remove yourself from this taglist, press the Post to Thread button below and write the exact words Please remove me. ------------------------- Current taglist as of Dec 2024 (updated by @tommy) @akshi2611 @BeautifulCurse @exuberantTalker9747 @freeman @Helentreat12 @Hobzz @HopefulMamaof4 @ivoryLime3964 @JasonneedsinTx @Jenna @joyfulUs2825 @kindShade3891 @matchamochi07 @Mhmdi @Oceansky93 @peachLime4859 @PFord79 @Property1094 @Rainboho @Ren1478 @Sahilwj @sensiblePine5487 @SerenelyClean @Snowy00 @tommy @tornwillow @xmoonsie16x0
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Attraction for sister
by ankush97547
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2 hours ago
...See more I have attraction for my sister. How to overcome this
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NEW - Addiction Support Automated Taglist
by tommy
Last post
2 hours ago
...See more Welcome to the NEW Addiction Support Taglist This thread is an auto-updating list. The list is regularly updated by forum leaders and can be found below. Having issues? Reply below and someone will help you! Why should I join the taglist? ✔ Never miss out on sub-community check-ins, discussions or events ✔ Get tagged and notified by community leaders whenever a new relevant thread has been posted ✔ Become a more active member of the community. What do I need to do? ✅ To add yourself to this taglist, press the Post to Thread button below and write the exact words Please add me. ❌ To remove yourself from this taglist, press the Post to Thread button below and write the exact words Please remove me. ------------------------- Current taglist as of Dec 2024 (updated by @tommy) @akshi2611 @BeautifulCurse @exuberantTalker9747 @freeman @Helentreat12 @Hobzz @HopefulMamaof4 @ivoryLime3964 @JasonneedsinTx @Jenna @joyfulUs2825 @kindShade3891 @matchamochi07 @Mhmdi @Oceansky93 @peachLime4859 @PFord79 @Property1094 @Rainboho @Ren1478 @Sahilwj @sensiblePine5487 @SerenelyClean @Snowy00 @tommy @tornwillow @xmoonsie16x0
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The Illusion of the Shield
by hikari4001
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3 hours ago
...See more A quiet reminder for anyone fighting a battle today Addiction often starts as a shield. It’s a way to numb the noise, to cope with a world that feels too heavy, or to fill a void we didn't know how to name. For a long time, it feels like a secret comfort—the only thing that listens, the only thing that works. But slowly, without us noticing, the shield turns into a cage. If you are in the thick of it right now—whether you are counting days, dealing with the heavy guilt of a relapse, or just staring at the mountain ahead wondering if you have the strength to climb it—please take a deep breath. The hardest part of this journey isn't just letting go of the coping mechanism; it’s learning to face the raw emotions underneath without armor. Shame will try to tell you that you are broken or that you’ve wasted your chances. But shame is a liar. Forgiving yourself for needing a shield in the first place is the very first crack of light in the dark. Recovery is rarely a straight line. It’s messy, it’s non-linear, and it’s built on tiny, invisible victories. It’s choosing this hour, this minute, or just this single breath to stay present. You are not a failure for struggling; you are a human being learning how to live again. Be gentle with your progress today. One step is enough.
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@fossilfellow Addiction Streak 🤍 *T.W*
by fossilfellow
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4 hours ago
...See more I've been struggling a lot with my addiction, and it feels like it keeps getting worse, and I just want to make this thread here so I can track my progress. I'm not sure how many time I'll post here, maybe multiple times a day sometimes. Idk, hope this helps 🤍
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Sex
by starbbylexi
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5 hours ago
...See more It’s like I can go without it but after a certain amount I start to have a urge to have it and I want more but the crazy part is that I never really finished every time so I try to find a fb(fu*k buddy) and we’ll talk about like the does and don’t but the issue with that is their far away
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ketamine addiction - attempting recovery
by filosofem
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16 hours ago
...See more ♡ hello , i’m filo. im 21 and have been using ket for about two months on the daily. i’m trying to get sober, the furthest i’ve gone was 6 days. cali sober but still.. i’m looking for advice to help with the withdrawal. idk if there’s meds i could ask a doctor about. anyways day two back in recovery, let’s see where i go ଓ
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My porn addiction
by D26174
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1 day ago
...See more I started commenting under a porn addiction post and keeping my streak of being porn free but I want to feel more accountable for my actions so I’m making this to also keep my streak and If forget to post or if I say I failed I want you guys to keep my accountable please I understand that failure comes with this but I’ve failed too many times idk if I’m going to share my full story yet but I’m learning to find myself right now and I hope you guys can too today is my day 4.
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porn addiction recovery (log in)
by northernlights101
Last post
1 day ago
...See more to ones who haven't seen my previous post: hello, this is a log in post to track your porn abstinence. this isn't an official event or anything, I'm just another addict trying to bring like-minded people together to help hold each other accountable. if you wish to start new, you could just follow the instructions given below! and do introduce yourself at the other post used for discussions - porn addiction recovery (discussion) - Discussion | 7 Cups [https://www.7cups.com/forum/addiction/SexandPornAddictionSupport_723/pornaddictionrecoverydiscussion_353938/?post=3850627] for more clarity you could check out my original post - porn addiction recovery - Discussion | 7 Cups [https://www.7cups.com/forum/addiction/SexandPornAddictionSupport_723/pornaddictionrecovery_353678/] how does it work?  1. on your day one, you can reply to the post by simply mentioning 'day 1 - xx/xx/xx (the date)' and as the day's progress please continue responding to yourself to create a chain with your logs only. this doesn't have to be everyday, just whenever you have the time.  2. if you miss a day, as in, end up giving in to your urges simply say 'counter reset - xx/xx/xx' or something similar but short and sweet. and continue replying the next day to your own comments, do not start a new chain, please. (this is so there aren't too many reply pages and we don't lose count easily) 3. please do not reply to another person's comments. only reply to your own comments. (just so we don't disrubt another person's logs and make it messy)  thank you for joining us in this journey!! 
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Addiction
by GoodTrouble19
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1 day ago
...See more I’m addicted to chatting and people.
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Controlling relationship
by intuitiveWatermelon5255
Last post
Tuesday
...See more Hello. I don’t have a substance addiction but I do have love/relationship addiction. I am having such a hard time leaving my controlling and manipulative boyfriend bc of feelings of being extremely isolated. And he’s trying to get me to move to him. He’s the only texts in my phone. And when I saw him last he got physical. I feel very ideation related and so so alone like he’s my only option. He never accepts my breakups. Help me. I feel so low esteem about myself bc I’m not telling anyone I’m stilll talking to him and I hate myself bc I’m obsessed with him and he hurts me sm.
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Porn addiction recovery
by kentaitaijo
Last post
July 4th
...See more I don't know how to start right now. i feel like i messed up my career and relationship. i overthink a lot and came to the point where it *** my brain. only dark thoughts consuming me right now. i don't know i might be quite popular, i know i did mistakes i got pretty bad name with prn addiction around college. my first relationship ended and i feel like she misunderstood that i am using her but i was going through a lot at that time. And that bad name followed when i did masters i quit my masters (it got pretty bad) and my name it just spread quickly. wherever i go outside college and meet at work i feel like there is something they talk about me and i get easily paranoid that they might gonna tease or saying something indirect. Sometimes i feel my phone is even compromised sometimes. i pushed my friends away cause i feel they don't support me or fully on my side on this. i know i made huge mistakes but i can't forgive myself its been 3 to 4 years.
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I am guilty of what I did and still paranoid about my past
by kentaitaijo
Last post
July 4th
...See more I don't know how to start right now. i feel like i messed up my career and relationship. i overthink a lot and came to the point where it *** my brain. only dark thoughts consuming me right now. i don't know i might be quite popular, i know i did mistakes i got pretty bad name with prn addiction around college. my first relationship ended and i feel like she misunderstood that i am using her but i was going through a lot at that time. And that bad name followed when i did masters i quit my masters (it got pretty bad) and my name it just spread quickly. wherever i go outside college and meet at work i feel like there is something they talk about me and i get easily paranoid that they might gonna tease or saying something indirect. Sometimes i feel my phone is even compromised sometimes. i pushed my friends away cause i feel they don't support me or fully on my side on this. i know i made huge mistakes but i can't forgive myself its been 3 to 4 years.

Addiction Support

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Welcome to Addiction Support! We are so pleased that you have stumbled across our little corner of the internet. Our community is here to support you through any recovery and/or pathway from substances to gambling, internet, self-harm, porn addiction, sex addiction, and more. All are welcome to participate whether you are a family member watching a loved one struggling or if you are struggling yourself. Feel free to discuss anything and everything related to addictions.


What are the different forum topics for Addiction Support?

Community Space: A place for you to introduce yourself and take part in our community check-ins.

Games and Icebreakers: A place for you to get to know other community members by participating in fun games!

General Addiction Support: Do you have a question or want to share more about your addiction? Do it here!

Journals: Want to share your story or involve us on your journey to recovery? Do it here!

Loving Those With Addictions: Got a loved one with an addiction? Share your story here!

Sex and Porn Addiction Support: Struggling with a sex and/or porn addiction? Discuss it here!


How can I help?

You can help us by simply responding to threads and sharing your story (if you're comfortable to). Alternatively, you may wish to join us as a Forum Leader. Check out this thread for more information.


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Addiction Support FAQ

Are there any sub-community specific guidelines that we need to adhere to?

All sub-community specific guidelines can be found below and should be followed in addition to the general forum guidelines.


Help... I still have a question! 

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Community Guidelines

Remain professional, kind, and respectful towards one another. 
Even if you do not get along with an individual listener, it is up to you to act appropriately. If you must, step away and do not engage.

Prevent hurtful rumor/gossip spreading. 
Rumor: a currently circulating story or report of uncertain or doubtful truth.
Gossip: idle talk especially about the personal or private affairs of others

Aim to grow and learn as a Listener & person. 
In this light, learning to accept feedback thankfully.

Be aware of how to use the forum correctly and what may happen when you do not do so. 
See more detailed forum guidelines below.

Refrain from sharing personal contact information
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Maintain a confidential atmosphere. 
Between you and member/guests and between you and other listeners. All conversations between you and members are confidential. Do not share any chat details with any other listeners or members. Additionally, do not write or blog about any issues you are supporting people on.

Engage in healthy problem solving. 
This means problem solving with the goal to continue to make the community better. Engage in healthy debates and conversations which lend themselves to problem solving and working together. Read more on the topic of healthy problem solving in this forum.

Use proper conflict resolution skills with every person on the site 
Proper conflict resolution means dealing with conflict in a supportive manner that benefits both you and the other person involved. Read more on conflict resolution in this forum.

Respect boundaries of other community members. 
This includes a total ban on stalking and harassment of any kind. 

Choose not to engage in sexting or flirting. 
We have a zero tolerance policy for these behaviors. Even if it is consensual, it is not allowed on 7 Cups. Read more about sexting and flirting in this forum.

Never create second accounts on the site. 
Each person is only allowed one listener and one member account. There are no exceptions.

Protect your log-in information to all accounts on 7 Cups and not allow anyone else to use it besides the person whose name is in our system. 
We expect that you will be the sole user of your listener/member account. If it comes to our attention that another person has accessed your account, we will need to immediately close your account for security reasons. This includes log-in details for 7 Cups Admin accounts.

Do not engage in hateful behaviors of any kind. 
Showing hate towards any gender identity, sexual orientation, disability, religion, racial or cultural background or imposing your view point on any of these items on another user is forbidden.

We now have a behavior point system.
We ask each user to live by the guidelines outlined in this thread. Each behavior mentioned will be assigned a behavior point, once a certain number of points are accumulated within 6 months, consequences will be enacted.