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Forget the bad?

User Profile: Jnelson84
Jnelson84 December 1st, 2018

Can you, and if so, how do you forget all the pain and torment an addict put you through, so that you can be there for them without fearing history will repeat?

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User Profile: Open2Change
Open2Change December 3rd, 2018

@Jnelson84 I think it depends on the relationship. If everything before the addiction was healthy then I think you can because you know that person can get to a good place when you're in their life. If there were other toxic parts to the relationship and they're not worked on, it's a recipe for disaster. But if both people want that and are willing to work hard to change then why not? Some space and new boundaries would probably help too.