I'm addicted to Love and need help
I'm addicted to love, and I resorting to online to find relationships and now, at chat site because it's easier. .Despite all the red flags, I continue talking to them, if they had ghosted me and came back, I feel its the connection that thy felt with me and not because they were bored and needed someone to amuse them. I will tel me them my sad stories or that I'm sick, to see if thy would check on me, if he does, then he is the one despite him just texting a one liner or gvg me a call. I would even imagine hvg passionate sex with them. I hv confessed love to numerous guys and if they don't live up to my expectations, I leave, or block them. At times, I know these guys are manipulating me, and I play along bc I thk they will eventually fall in love with me. If I have no guys that would text me,to check on me, I go into deep depression, thinking I'm not good enough for anyone. In real life, Im do hold back because I do not want any issues at work or family. I do hv few guys that are friendly and some interested in me sexually, but I would want them to fall in love with me madly and do all the chasing.. I would hv a bit more common sense to act a bit more sensible than I do online as to not create any drama...but I do enjoy that thy still do check on me.Maybe I m leading them on.. I need help because I thk hvg a guy makes me feel better about myself..I don't know if this a problem, but I'm addicted to finding love.i hate myself wen there is no guy telling me that they love me and wld protect me...anyone can help?
Hey you aren’t alone I’m in the same exact boat
I literally spent the past 2 days trying to find someone to talk to and I would fall into these traps from random bots or scammers lol and then feel used or hurt but feels good to know that I’m not alone.. well we could chat I’ll be here
Hey thks, would appreciate that very much.
Well I’m not sure how to msg you actually
I was wondering how I could actually talk to you or is it only through the thread sorry I’m new
Me too....kinda trying to figure out the site
It can be funny how we overthink certain situations to a point where they start seeming like problems. Let me tell you that I was the same kind of guy during school days. I would want atleast 1 girl intrested in me at any given point of time. And I remember falling in instant depression if there was no girl intrested in me at any point. I am not sure what changed in the following years but I am totally different now. I am confident in my skin and now I chose people who can and connot be in my life, instead of being dependent on others for happiness. I genuinely think think all these are just phases which eventually pass as we grow matured and stop overthinking about silly things.
Amen to that I’m working on building myself back up
I hv been doing it all my life, resorting to a guy to fill the void..and I hv not shake it off...