@Johnmurray
I dont know, someone else will explain better to you.
I just come here to chatrooms where I chat with people, or making posts here or reacting to them. Nothing else I use or do.
It is a supportive website, and very good place to be in. Welcome!
Thank you so much ð¥°
@Johnmurray
Of course sir.
Can we talk to each other here is that possible
@Johnmurray
In this comment section, yes. We can, otherwise I dont think it works like it here... private messaging. You have chatrooms where there is more people, or you can chat with listeners one on one here.
What do you want to talk about?
Am depressed
@Johnmurray
What is the reason for ur depression?
My wife just divorce
@Johnmurray
That must be devastating to you. What happened? Sorry to hear
She divorce because of the nature of my job As a military man i don't have enough time, before I came home she cheated on me and i write a divorce letter
@Johnmurray
Military man, that must be very demanding.
I see, I am sorry to hear. So there is no reconciliation? No will towards reconciliation?
Like you must have really sat down and talked about all of this, solution etc... right?
She have already decide to coming back so i don't know what to do, I just need someone to talk too
@Johnmurray
Well, I dont know the situation.
But you gotta really talk about it, you know? The solution, what to do? You gotta make priority your wife rather than career, find a way to spend more time with her. Forgive her, and try to understand her place, get in her shoes. Like, you know? It is difficult. And i cant tell you what to do, but maybe you can think about my words. And you do what u think is right
I should go back to a lady that cheated on me that's not right thuo
@Johnmurray
Eye for an eye, and the world would be blind.
It is more difficult to forgive than not to forgive.
It depends on your wife, if she wants to save the marriage. We do mistakes. But without mercy and forgiveness... how can we have healthy and long term relationships?
