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Am I Being Too Judgemental?

User Profile: scarletWillow7125
scarletWillow7125 January 28th, 2022

My husband started smoking pot about 8 months ago, and it has gone from once or twice every other day to a daily habit. He smokes a little throughout the afternoon and then I think stays up late and smokes a lot more.


He says it’s helps him with his anxiety, helps him to sleep better, be happier and a better dad/husband. I think he’s addicted to the high and claims these ‘benefits’ as an excuse to keep smoking. I see him still being productive, but not as much as usual, as he’s taking naps during the day after staying up late. He’s also eating more junk food, and doesn’t seem as organized/motivated as he used to be.


He is great with the kids and a very supportive husband. He is happy smoking weed and doesn’t want to stop. Should I just leave him alone about this? Is this really more of a ‘me’ problem?

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User Profile: audienta
audienta January 28th, 2022

@scarletWillow7125

Hey scarlet

Thank you for sharing your thoughts!

It sounds like you are worrying about your husbands behaviour. So you think you could share those worries with him?

You're definitely being a good wife and I can see that you care about your husband a lot. You're not judging him for smoking weed, you're just worried that he is going down a harmful path. That's okay and understandable. <3

Take care

audienta