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Help! My partner is a gambling addict!

User Profile: IHaveGotThis
IHaveGotThis October 21st, 2019

My name is Sophie. A few months ago my partner admitted he is a gambling addict. He plays lottery and slots.

I am just reaching out for support and advice as I dont understand the addiction, personally, Ive dealt with many addictions, such as self harm. I was very close to becoming an alcohol and drug addict, I am currently addicted to energy drinks.

When my partner told me about his addiction, I didnt shout, get mad or upset with him. I was supportive towards him, however, I did tell him I dont understand the addiction or why/how people can get addicted to gambling.

I have gambled myself, but became bored very quickly, and walked away and just never bothered again.

My partner has lied about where he was, saying he was at home when in fact he was out gambling. He has only lied to me the once, and he told me later that day that he lied, and became tearful because he felt ashamed. Again I shown nothing but love and support for him.

So, on this note. What advice/information can you give me as I simply do not understand the addiction, and in eyes, if I am not educated enough to know these things, then Im useless in terms of trying to help him.

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