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Partner of a Porn and Sex addict

Hi together

i am from Germany and I need people to Chat about what it feels like to be married with a porn and Sex addicted partner.


i found out the truth by myself that my husband is addicted to porn.

And if this wasnt enough he used fake Profil first to get to know women around him. First just for his head, than it became real

he met several women and had at least sex with them. I just know about one lady, but I think it is even more, even worse that I could ever imagine…


I am so sad

i am getting crazy about the fact he could do this to his family, to me, I am so hurt 

it is painful 

but I know it is a sickness caused from childhood trauma.

but this is his thing to deal with

but he brought it into our family.

he is addicted to attention from strangers, sex, pictures, videos, porns and he wants to be like he is the porn actor and is inside the movie….


I am in therapy, and I am looking for spouses, partners, wives with the same feelings 

please support me 

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 March 26th

@proactiveBeach7845

I'm sorry you are struggling with this.

It must be so hard to talk about.

It's important to have open communication , would your husband see a therapist,?

Trauma explains some things but it doesn't justify cheating and making you feel inferior , alone or neglected.

Is he willing to put the work in, to make you a priority?

You deserve to feel important and not an option in your relationship 🩵

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User Profile: proactiveBeach7845
proactiveBeach7845 OP March 26th

He is already in therapy

And he has no a group of anonymus sexsholics.

He is working and changing

But i feel so so so bad about that fact he could do this. He Lied, he planned with other women things. He was sexually and some kind of emotionally into them.

It hurts so so bad